'Over the Phone'

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Brandon777 said:
How do you know it's not a sin? *with sharp tone* The Holy Bible doesn't say anything about phone sex, but it does talk about unholiness of the heart, purity of mind, and lust. How do you know sinning is as black and white as doing it or not doing it? I mean. There are levels of hell, so that seems to mean that there are levels of punishment, which seems to me that there are degrees of Judgement. Deuteronomy 32:22 "For a fire is kindled in mine anger, and shall burn unto the lowest hell, and shall consume the earth with her increase, and set on fire the foundations of the mountains." Romans 2:6 and Revelation 20:13 "And each shall be judged according to his deeds." Different degrees of judgement and punishment strongly implies different degrees of sin.
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Is it lonely up there on your pedestal?
 
Heres a phrase I like:

Foreplay is like a popcorn machine, once you start it up its virtually impossible to turn off.

Phone sex is foreplay plain and simple.

Jesus put lust and adultery as the same thing. If your not married to this boy, then you have no idea if you're going to marry him or not, therefore you are lusting after SOMEONE'S future husband.



Read your bible and leave it be. If the relationship is becomming a sexual stumbling block for you then you should consider breaking it off.
 
LitByLove said:
trying to keep this clean...but i need a christian opinion. i know sex before marriage isnt a good idea (along with it being a sin) and anything that is lust or anything is also a sin....but do you put a level on how 'big' a sin is? do any of you believe that certain things are okay? like..."other things" that would mean not going all the way? or as my title implies ^ 'doing it over the phone'??? I have so much temptation and am struggling with myself trying to decide what exactly is okay/wrong. Everyone has got their own opinions, but do you feel you can go to a certain extent and that its fine?
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Here is the simple truth. Sin leads to sin. It builds upon other sin. The more sin you put into foundation the bigger the stronghold is going to be which you'll need to break down. Want some good advice... stop it. Just like smoking or being an alcoholic it can be stopped and can be prevented. Today it is over the phone...tommorow you are only going to take off the top...until before you know it, you are sleeping around etc. And yes and know you think it doesn't work that way or the one that you say...it will NEVER happen to ME. Hey guess what... you don't want it to happen to you. Then do this... get away from pornography or lustly movies if you are watching them. Stop going into lust at all. And quit it. If you take my advice you might thank me one day. If it seems like a temptation then decide against it. Trust me. The more you give in the easier it is to give in and to more you will give in. So STOP. Don't go near it and live a clean life. Get away from the edge of the cliff. You are not a cliffhangar. Get yourself focused and create your body into something that special someone can love when you actually meet the one that was meant for you. That way you won't feel ashamed.

Resist the very thought of temptation. If you can identify it as temptation, then you already know it is wrong.
 
Siberian_Khatru said:
Is it lonely up there on your pedestal?
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When you have an actual argument then say it rather than just saying I'm up on a pedestal. Poking at me avoids what we're talking about. I was giving what I honestly thought. If you'd rather defend that I'm on a pedestal, please tell me why you think so, so I can avoid that in the future. Thank you :)
 
Ill be open and honest......my husband, before we got married,we prolly did everything under the moon other than have sex!!!! NOW.....my husband left me last year and we were and still are seperated. I have had sex, so once you have it, its hard to not have it again. I fell into a relationship (not of God) and had sex with him. We "fooled" around, had phone sex, what not, but thats what ultimltly led to sex. It starts off with phone sex, then kissing, then touching, then clothes coming off, then body parts exposed, so fooling around, to then sex......you think you wont go all the way, but sometimes it happens and then theres not turning back!!!! If you ever want to talk, just message me!
 
Just like the song by Casting Crowns Slow Fade.......BLACK AND WHITE, TURNS TO GRAY!!!! You know something is wrong its black and white....then when you get into sin, it turns to gray and you make excuses for it!
 
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