That is true that a lot of people who claim Christ will speak out against homosexuality,and then not speak out against getting a divorce,and some of them have been divorced and remarried,which God said,where 2 are joined together,let no man put asunder,showing how much God looks upon marriage as a bond not to be split.
But a person that claims to be with Christ can divorce and remarry,if their spouse had sexual intercourse with another person,for that person broke the bond between them by having sexual intercourse with another,and then the deal is off if the person wants it that has been cheated on.
But there are people that claim Christ and speak out against homosexuality,but have divorced because of differences,not being able to get along too well,and no cheating went on.
The truth is that when 2 people marry,they are not to get divorced over anything,except cheating,and if it is anything else besides cheating they cannot marry ever again,for anybody they have sex with or anybody their spouse has sex with is adultery and a sin.
If it is not cheating,it is kind of you took a shot,you lost,you do not get another shot,because of the relationship importance of marriage,which is 2 people who love each other,help each other,and has a bond unlike any other 2 people on earth that is not married.
That means you cannot get a divorce if your spouse keeps coming at you with a knife,keeps you broke spending all your cash,and sets fire to the house with you and the kids in it,which is plenty of reason to divorce in the world,but God says,no divorce,but you can separate and get away from your spouse,but you are still married.
But since they are still married while separated,someone could think,I hope they cheat on me and tell me to rub it in my face,so I can divorce,which since they are fleshy,it is bound to happen that one of them has sexual intercourse while separated.But if you think I hope they cheat on me,it would seem like a sin.
There are many people who claim Christ as Lord,that are fleshy,which they have a form of godliness,but deny the power thereof,lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God,worldliness,which you can see,so they might have quite a few divorces among those people,but they get lumped together with all Christianity,and it makes Christianity look hypocritical because of their divorce among other things.
The truth is all fighting comes from the flesh and not the Spirit,so if they are really with the Lord there is nothing to fight about,and be at odds about.Marriage will work out fine with the Lord.If they are fleshy they will speak out against homosexuality,but not divorce if they been divorced,seeing they justify they did no wrong,or believe they can remarry over petty squabbles.
A person can remarry,if their spouse cheats on them,or if their spouse dies.
The truth is if 2 people marry and divorce,then it shows the character of at least one of them,or both of them,that they are selfish and not really committed to another person,but basically think of them selves over their spouse,instead of them being equal and one flesh.
But some people haste marriage without getting to know the person,and then find out later that person is not the special person they made themselves out to be,but there is no excuse for they picked,and their fault because they should of inspected the merchandise longer,and I don't mean sexually.