Oh, one last thing. I can't remember if I've asked this already, but guys, I have a question for you.
Am I right that when I was doing internet dating and I was contacted by a guy who lives far away that he's thinking that if we hit it off on-line (and visits) and a relocation is in order that chances are the guy is thinking that it's more likely that I'll move to him than he'll move to me simply because he's the guy and I'm the girl? Or, to put it another way, when I was contacted by a guy who lived far away, I assume this is what was going through his head "Maybe she'll fall in love with me solely based on e-mails and the ocassional visit, and then she'll quit her job where she's worked so hard to get to where she is, uproot her life where God has planted her, and move to wherever I live just so she can be near me." Am I wrong to assume that's what he's probably thinking? Or if he's not from Canada he assumes that I'll jump at the chance to get married even if it's from a guy I don't know on the other side of the world who hardly speaks English. It's difficult to be close friends with me if one isn't really good at English because I talk really, really fast. And when I'm tired my accent gets thick. I was at a friend's house late at night once and her cousin was there from Scotland and by 11:30 at night he said he couldn't hardly understand me because of my accent. I don't know. Either way I get offended when guys contact me from far away wanting a relationship. Am I wrong to feel that way? Am I being too cynical?