??? what do you want to ask God? He has already revealed all you need to know in the BIBLE.
how should you live your life?
Titus 2
New King James Version (NKJV)
2 But as for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: 2 that the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; 3 the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things— 4 that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.
6 Likewise, exhort the young men to be sober-minded, 7 in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility,[a] 8 sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you.
9 Exhort bondservants to be obedient to their own masters, to be well pleasing in all things, not answering back, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good fidelity, that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in all things.
11 For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, 12 teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age, 13 looking for the blessed hope and glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, 14 who gave Himself for us, that He might redeem us from every lawless deed and purify for Himself His own special people, zealous for good works.
15 Speak these things, exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no one despise you.
Personally I feel God's presence by having a peace in my heart and a song of joy in the background of my mind when I walk with Him. When I do something wrong or think something mean the music stops and my heart grows troubled so I stop what I'm doing and pray and ask God to show me what I did wrong. then I repent and the music and peace comes back.
That is most of my life. If you read the Bible you will see that Moses lived in the desert as a sheep herder for 40 years without directly hearing from God.
God spends time to train us to do certain things. He uses different methods to teach us patience, joy, love, peace, goodness, self control, gentleness, loyalty, virtue, brotherly kindness, sound doctrine, etc.
Sometimes God sends us dreams, sometimes God sends us people, but most of all we have His Holy Spirit and the Bible to teach and guide us.
I tend to pray God please place in me only desires that are in line with YOUR will and remove from my mind and heart anything that is contrary to Your will. Lord convict me of my transgressions, show me my secret faults and forgive me and allow me to forgive others, help me to overcome and tear down any strongholds that are in my mind and life that war against you. help me to be Your hands and feet and speak words of life, words of encouragement, love and peace to those around me. Thank You God for the many loving and kind people you have placed around me. In Jesus name amen.
then i just live in faith and trust that God will take care of it all and help me be who I'm meant to be and do the things that need to be done in the day. He'll let me know or prevent me from misstepping. sometimes I think God lets me fall so that others can help me get up again. for it is good for us to help others but it is also good to allow others to help us.