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Ive read a few post.. and honestly even I will approve of it (since I think Im more of the world) Yes women, especially young woman suffer of lust. Lust can really break down, real love, hence society has lost the actual meaning of love.

Sometimes I feel so disgusted and sad about how there is so many beautiful girls out there just destroying themselves (lust can destroy a person). I always wanted to wait until I was married (in whatever church I ended up believing) yet I myself succumbed to my ex gf wishes. I felt so ashamed and dirtied afterwords (yes a boy who was raised by the world felt this) yet for some reason she wanted more.. and after that, I guess she wanted more.. but not with me. So even tho sex felt disgusting to me (in the sense that I would feel guilt afterwords) yet I being a male thought maybe if I give myself to this girl, she will know that I do want to be with her and with time it was more about lust then love (destroying myself). and so I did it multiple times..

Now I can imagine how a girl must feel when she can control her urges and feel played after.. LUST is terrible and it can actually kill the spirit (in the sense that you wont believe in real love) I pray everynight for it to change.. but I know it wont so it just saddens me. oh I know I went on a jargon.. but thats my opinion. sorry

Sincerely Uriel
 
wanting2believe said:
Ive read a few post.. and honestly even I will approve of it (since I think Im more of the world) Yes women, especially young woman suffer of lust. Lust can really break down, real love, hence society has lost the actual meaning of love.

Sometimes I feel so disgusted and sad about how there is so many beautiful girls out there just destroying themselves (lust can destroy a person). I always wanted to wait until I was married (in whatever church I ended up believing) yet I myself succumbed to my ex gf wishes. I felt so ashamed and dirtied afterwords (yes a boy who was raised by the world felt this) yet for some reason she wanted more.. and after that, I guess she wanted more.. but not with me. So even tho sex felt disgusting to me (in the sense that I would feel guilt afterwords) yet I being a male thought maybe if I give myself to this girl, she will know that I do want to be with her and with time it was more about lust then love (destroying myself). and so I did it multiple times..

Now I can imagine how a girl must feel when she can control her urges and feel played after.. LUST is terrible and it can actually kill the spirit (in the sense that you wont believe in real love) I pray everynight for it to change.. but I know it wont so it just saddens me. oh I know I went on a jargon.. but thats my opinion. sorry

Sincerely Uriel
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And you certainly aren't alone. Though I was raised a christian, and dated a christian, I also fell into this sort of trap. But the guilt was never enough. I hope you are able to find a woman who has the strength to resist her own desires, and if you're really lucky, one that can help keep your lusts in check too.
 
lol honestly I think Im the one who would keep her in check. Sorry I know it sounds weird.. but after so many times I actually rejected a few girls. The feeling of it with no true love is just so terrible it eats me alive!! lol

I know I laugh because Im a guy and more of the world.. but its like so bad. Cuz in the end its empty. So when I see girls give into it, I just get all sad inside. They deserve better :( Im not even trying to think about it anymore cuz it is so sad.
 
Oncefallen said:
Gahgghghgh, I hate inside jokes. I even cheated and tried the Mod controls, but we can only read deleted posts, not edited ones. :(
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HAHAHAHAHA! Nice try Jim. I've tried that in the past too, and no workie! We really should ask Robo to add that to the list haha :P
 
iraasuup said:
HAHAHAHAHA! Nice try Jim. I've tried that in the past too, and no workie! We really should ask Robo to add that to the list haha :P
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Hmmm, maybe it was I who should be afraid of you, not the other way around. No wonder women shouldn't be given power, it goes straight to their heads! ;)
 
Now I'm wondering about all of my deleted posts.... lol

The ones I delete are usually either way too personal or I think they might sound a little snotty or something. People don't always get my humor :/
 
Jullianna said:
Now I'm wondering about all of my deleted posts.... lol

The ones I delete are usually either way too personal or I think they might sound a little snotty or something. People don't always get my humor :/
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I can't speak for the rest of the staff, but this was the first time I'd ever tried to see what someone had cleared out. I figure if they wanted it public, they wouldn't have deleted it, but that edited post of Lightning's seemed like it had to have been good.
 
Yes we understand that. That's why there needs to be major communication in all relationships. To nip that sucker when it might possibly come up.
 
Hey! Oncefallen! That's MY walker!

but...since you're going to the kitchen, would you mind bringing back some cake????!!! :D
 
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