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I admit that I get annoyed when I see people social climbing. How about you?
 

Nautilus

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Unsure what you mean...Isnt this part of networking and selling yourself? Or am I missing your point?
 

Dude653

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I get annoyed when people post threads with vague meanings and dont explain what they are talking about.
 
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It seems, just browsing through your threads, that you resent someone in your church hierarchy. Is that the case?
 
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must have a lot of time to post so many threads
 
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I admit that I get annoyed when I see people social climbing. How about you?
not really since I don't pay much attention to those type of people. I try to think the best about those around me. Sometimes people call me naive but you know what, I'm not.

I know there are bad people out there and that many people will take advantage of others. I listen to the leading of the Holy Spirit and associate with those He leads me to befriend.

Some of my friends don't understand why I would "waste" my time with some of them, but I would rather be made a fool of because I took the risk of loving and trusting them. then jumping the gun and thinking that they are going to be evil and mean people.

I haven't really meet that many people who are cruel for cruelty sake. I have meet their victims and spoken with others who are tempted to sin, but I thank God that He has protected me so far from truly evil people who I know are out there. The ones who molest small children, drug and rape young girls, who inflict pain because it gives them pleasure.

I can think of times in my life when I brushed against evil but have found that God sends people to pull me out and away from such situations. they give me a lecture but I have found it builds my faith to know that there are still people who care and love me enough to lecture me.

I don't understand why you would not want to please other people.

what do you mean by people socially climbing?

I always thought of as networking and making friends and sharing your life with others. you don't climb over others, you help each other build up to reach your mutual dreams and goals out of love.

i think everyone should climb together towards that upward calling of God.

I don't understand why that would be a bad thing.
 
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enochson

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I see a fairy tale about a great fall.
 

tribesman

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I get annoyed when people post threads with vague meanings and dont explain what they are talking about.
And oneliners to that. But maybe that's how one gets a very high post count (if one thinks that is a desirable goal). *yawns*

This said, much of modern christianity is about social climbing. If that's OnT.
 

JaumeJ

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Unsure what you mean...Isnt this part of networking and selling yourself? Or am I missing your point?
I admit that I get annoyed when I see people social climbing. How about you?
Social status is the concern of people who wish to be social, my enormous dislike is when anyone deliberately causes a brother or sister to stray, this is very painful. I pray those servants of the enemy repent, and if they are not going to, then just stay away, amen.
 
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Some people are just people people, no ulterior motive. Sometimes perception can be in err. Don't focus on them, focus on you and what the Lord would have you do :) .
 
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Unsure what you mean...Isnt this part of networking and selling yourself? Or am I missing your point?
Social climbing is when you try to “rise up” in the world by flattering the “right” people, and activity like that.
 
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not really since I don't pay much attention to those type of people. I try to think the best about those around me. Sometimes people call me naive but you know what, I'm not.

I know there are bad people out there and that many people will take advantage of others. I listen to the leading of the Holy Spirit and associate with those He leads me to befriend.

Some of my friends don't understand why I would "waste" my time with some of them, but I would rather be made a fool of because I took the risk of loving and trusting them. then jumping the gun and thinking that they are going to be evil and mean people.

I haven't really meet that many people who are cruel for cruelty sake. I have meet their victims and spoken with others who are tempted to sin, but I thank God that He has protected me so far from truly evil people who I know are out there. The ones who molest small children, drug and rape young girls, who inflict pain because it gives them pleasure.

I can think of times in my life when I brushed against evil but have found that God sends people to pull me out and away from such situations. they give me a lecture but I have found it builds my faith to know that there are still people who care and love me enough to lecture me.

I don't understand why you would not want to please other people.

what do you mean by people socially climbing?

I always thought of as networking and making friends and sharing your life with others. you don't climb over others, you help each other build up to reach your mutual dreams and goals out of love.

i think everyone should climb together towards that upward calling of God.

I don't understand why that would be a bad thing.
Sometimes people like that run a church, and it’s therefore hard to ignore them.
 
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Some people are just people people, no ulterior motive. Sometimes perception can be in err. Don't focus on them, focus on you and what the Lord would have you do :) .
People in high places can control your life to a certain degree. They can’t be ignored.
 
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I see a fairy tale about a great fall.


All who choose sin over righteousness fall. The Lord saves us from our sins, but he disciplines us for our sins, and if we keep committing the same sins over and over, the discipline can be very severe.
 
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And oneliners to that. But maybe that's how one gets a very high post count (if one thinks that is a desirable goal). *yawns*

This said, much of modern christianity is about social climbing. If that's OnT.
Social climbing is a sin. It is called “pride.”

[20] And he said, "What comes out of a man is what defiles a man.
[21] For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, fornication, theft, murder, adultery,
[22] coveting, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, foolishness.
[23] All these evil things come from within, and they defile a man." Mark 7:20-23 RSV
 
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Social status is the concern of people who wish to be social, my enormous dislike is when anyone deliberately causes a brother or sister to stray, this is very painful. I pray those servants of the enemy repent, and if they are not going to, then just stay away, amen.
People in high places have a certain amount of control over other people. It therefore is better not to have social climbers in those places of authority.
 
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Perhaps its time to submit to the authority of the church. If you have a problem with one in authority then you bring it to him with 2 witness's using Biblical conflict resolution. You accuse of pride but that accusation could be cast upon any person on earth. Look within your own heart and see whats going on if there is nothing specific to resolve. Are you coveting someones authority? Authority can be difficult for men (women too but not as often a stumbling block for us) and a stumbling block in their faith. We ALL, even our pastors have to be accountable to another in our walk.