Perhaps its time to submit to the authority of the church. If you have a problem with one in authority then you bring it to him with 2 witness's using Biblical conflict resolution. You accuse of pride but that accusation could be cast upon any person on earth. Look within your own heart and see whats going on if there is nothing specific to resolve. Are you coveting someones authority? Authority can be difficult for men (women too but not as often a stumbling block for us) and a stumbling block in their faith. We ALL, even our pastors have to be accountable to another in our walk.