J
Have you ever been engaged in great conversation with others of all shapes/sizes/ages/shades/genders/whatever, everyone is having a good time...laughing, sharing, learning, fellowshipping...and then it happens...*sigh* ....someone has to make it flirtacious or sexual in some way?
Maybe there's some sort of disconnect in my brain (and there probably is because friends tell me all the time that some guy is flirting with me and I don't get it unless he's pretty obvious...), but I don't come to chat or to these forums to look for someone to date. I know that it happens from time to time (and that's awesome if it works for you ), but I guess I'm just stupid enough to believe that some of us actually like spending time with people who are like us - share our faith, question the same things we question, have the same dreams or hopes for the future, share the same hurts/failures/flaws - without having to feel as if we are opening ourselves up to either be hit on or have it appear that we might be hitting on someone.
What is it with people who think that men/women can't communicate with one another, have a great time and just be friends?
Maybe there's some sort of disconnect in my brain (and there probably is because friends tell me all the time that some guy is flirting with me and I don't get it unless he's pretty obvious...), but I don't come to chat or to these forums to look for someone to date. I know that it happens from time to time (and that's awesome if it works for you ), but I guess I'm just stupid enough to believe that some of us actually like spending time with people who are like us - share our faith, question the same things we question, have the same dreams or hopes for the future, share the same hurts/failures/flaws - without having to feel as if we are opening ourselves up to either be hit on or have it appear that we might be hitting on someone.
What is it with people who think that men/women can't communicate with one another, have a great time and just be friends?