I don't have a problem helping anyone that needs help, but that needs to be through churches and private foundations, not through our government. We need a smaller government not bigger.
So you don't think public money should be used to build and improve roads, bridges, sanitation, and other utilities and infrastructure?
You think it's wrong that taxes should be collected to support a national defense?
You want to eliminate police, legal systems, emergency response, etc. except for people who can afford personal security?
These are all examples of "redistribution." Money is taken from the citizens at large and used for a specific purpose to benefit all the citizens.
Now, if you want to say that health care, food, shelter, etc. are not the responsibility of the government, you can make that argument. Go for it. I would love to hear a well-constructed case pro or con.
As for size of government, you want "small"? How about 1? Can't get much smaller than that. Well, there's 0. So, sounds like you're arguing either for anarchy or monarchy. I don't think you're going to get much support for either of those ideas here in the United States. But who knows, start a support group, maybe there are other people who see it your way. If you get enough people to agree, start a movement. Anything's possible.