people have a perverted sense of what love is. they think if someone loves them they will not be disciplined, they will get whatever they want from the other person. I called it spoiled child syndrome. God doesn't spoil His children. He teaches them the Truth and disciplines them out of LOVE. He does not STOP loving them when they disobey but He does care enough to correct them. that is True love. not fake love people pretend they have for others by giving them THINGS instead of time, instead of listening they give them a new electronic toy or care. that is not how GOD loves. not how God Gives.
Job 36ioi
5 “Behold, God
is mighty, but despises
no one;
He is mighty in strength of understanding.
6 He does not preserve the life of the wicked,
But gives justice to the oppressed.
7 He does not withdraw His eyes from the righteous;
But
they are on the throne with kings,
For He has seated them forever,
And they are exalted.
8 And if
they are bound in fetters,
Held in the cords of affliction,
9 Then
He tells them their work and their transgressions—
That they have acted defiantly.
10 He also opens their ear to instruction,
And commands that they turn from iniquity.
11 If they obey and serve
Him,
They shall spend their days in prosperity,
And their years in pleasures.
12 But if they do not obey,
They shall perish by the sword,
And they shall die without knowledge.[
a]
13 “But the hypocrites in heart store up wrath;
They do not cry for help when He binds them.
14 They die in youth,
And their life
ends among the perverted persons.[
b]
15
He delivers the poor in their affliction,
And opens their ears in oppression.