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Gentalspirit it's rude when people ignore others. Plus it's not nice. Sometimes they don't even know their doing it. Sometimes they do know and they don't care. Give them the bennifit of doubt that maybe they don't know. Shake it off. Speak up. You are as important as anyone else. God bless you. Love
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Thankyou all, this thread was for those who were seeking wisdom in this matter and i do appreciate you all who have posted, really. It came to me while i was praying that sometimes we speak loudly that we dont hear others and sometimes we are quiet and hear the soft still voice of others, also that sometimes the right people hear us and the ones not meant to hear us dont. Its the ones or one, God, with the quiet voice that has important messages. Also God speakes through others to get the message to them. I hope this doesnt offend anyone, its only what was brought to me and wanted to share it. Let me know if this causes any strife. Jesus is with us all the time, He is within us like a good companion thats with us along the journey. God bless you all.
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I guess I can't handle it very good sometimes with getting ignored. I take it easily very personal. I have always been a person that accepts other people easily, ever since I was a child I loved to talk and share, as well as I loved being the "centre" of attention. In my family I think I could easily be the "clown", as I loved making jokes, acting very goofy. I am still this way, though not everyone might get my jokes. 
For some people they think of me as a "crazy" lady.
When I started school, I suddenly became a grey mouse. I became the quiet and the one everyone picked on and bullied. This became more a shell around me, as I have always been a very outgoing person. But when other kids picked me out as a bully victim and rejected me, then I often tried to show them I could handle well being on my own. Something I never did, as deep inside of me I felt as I wanted to cry. But for me to show no tears, meant that I would be a stronger person. Although I couldn't always avoid running to the bathroom crying sometimes.
I think that the way we often react today has a lot with the way we also did react during our past. When I am with a lot of people and I feel ignored by them, I try doing something else to seem as I am doing something important. Like watching out of the window, or I may have taken a notebook/diary/journal with me, and I might be writing something, sketching or drawing. I still don't like feeling ignored, so I try filling up that moment of rejection with something else to making me feeling a bit better.
For some people they think of me as a "crazy" lady. When I started school, I suddenly became a grey mouse. I became the quiet and the one everyone picked on and bullied. This became more a shell around me, as I have always been a very outgoing person. But when other kids picked me out as a bully victim and rejected me, then I often tried to show them I could handle well being on my own. Something I never did, as deep inside of me I felt as I wanted to cry. But for me to show no tears, meant that I would be a stronger person. Although I couldn't always avoid running to the bathroom crying sometimes.
I think that the way we often react today has a lot with the way we also did react during our past. When I am with a lot of people and I feel ignored by them, I try doing something else to seem as I am doing something important. Like watching out of the window, or I may have taken a notebook/diary/journal with me, and I might be writing something, sketching or drawing. I still don't like feeling ignored, so I try filling up that moment of rejection with something else to making me feeling a bit better.
