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Jullianna
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I recently discovered an amazing combination that I love: Confidence AND humility rolled into one terrific guy 
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Chrissy77
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I'm curious... because a woman wants a christian man who doesn't drink that makes her a terrible christian woman?
Just because women prefer a man who doesn't drink, does not mean they are terrible. I know plenty of women who aren't Christian who don't want a man that drinks. I don't see the point in it really. If you want to drink, that is your own personal choice, but don't knock other women who don't see it your way. That's just silly.
ive just had a run of bad luck with women lately who find out i do enjoy drinking on occasion and they are all like yeah i cant be with a guy like that... Its bothersome haha i dont mean to take it out on anyone. The bad part is all the christian women i have been interested in for say like the past 6motnhs or so have been this way while secuar women i meet are like cool lets go out and have some drinks.
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Stephanie
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Over the years I've started to make a list as I realise my prefrences.
Firstly, let me just say a man who has a deep meaningful relationship with Christ is the most attractive thing ever AND it obviosuly a deal breaker. That's is above all what I look for in a man.
Another big one is that he's someone I can easily follow and easily respect. So I most deffinately will look for a man that I admire and trust. I admire men who have wisdom wisdom, show strength, and are thoughful in the sense that they put much thought into their decisions and values etc.
As much of a tall order as those thing can be, I know there are hundreds of men out there who probably meet that discription so my personal fleshly list of qualities is a follows:
Funny
Handy
Loves dogs
Tall
Brave
Clean(ish)
Bearded
Not in that particular order- funny is kind of huge for me because I love to laugh and make people laugh. I NEED someone with a fantastic sense of humor. Nothing on that list is really a deal breaker though, just things that I prefer and that I've found myself drawn to. I know a lot of them seem kind of silly but hey... That's just how I'm wired I guess.
I can't speak for girls in general but I'd say if she's Christian that a guys relationship with God will be a very important quality for her. I also think that in general, girls like guys with confidence. That doesn't mean incredibly outgoing or popuar or even personable, but just a man who knows who he is and feels good about it. Other than that I'd say it really varies depending on the girl.
Firstly, let me just say a man who has a deep meaningful relationship with Christ is the most attractive thing ever AND it obviosuly a deal breaker. That's is above all what I look for in a man.
Another big one is that he's someone I can easily follow and easily respect. So I most deffinately will look for a man that I admire and trust. I admire men who have wisdom wisdom, show strength, and are thoughful in the sense that they put much thought into their decisions and values etc.
As much of a tall order as those thing can be, I know there are hundreds of men out there who probably meet that discription so my personal fleshly list of qualities is a follows:
Funny
Handy
Loves dogs
Tall
Brave
Clean(ish)
Bearded
Not in that particular order- funny is kind of huge for me because I love to laugh and make people laugh. I NEED someone with a fantastic sense of humor. Nothing on that list is really a deal breaker though, just things that I prefer and that I've found myself drawn to. I know a lot of them seem kind of silly but hey... That's just how I'm wired I guess.
I can't speak for girls in general but I'd say if she's Christian that a guys relationship with God will be a very important quality for her. I also think that in general, girls like guys with confidence. That doesn't mean incredibly outgoing or popuar or even personable, but just a man who knows who he is and feels good about it. Other than that I'd say it really varies depending on the girl.
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Dutchie92
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Welll, he needs to be in love with God first. It has to be someone that makes me smile eeeeeveryday
. Jut caring, loving and handsome too. And someone who accepts me and loves me unconditionally...
. Jut caring, loving and handsome too. And someone who accepts me and loves me unconditionally...
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Grace52
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It doesnt matter how much money he does or does not spend on me. Its how much time he spends with me. How he treats me.
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Indubitably
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Something's up here in these threads. Is all this entirely honest? Ladies, if that's all you want, I'd be getting a dozen proposals a day.
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Jullianna
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Stephanie
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Well I'm not totally unrealistic! I know that men tend to be messy and I don't want a man who is clear than me. I just want a man who appreciates cleanliness and participates in it in the sense that he at LEAST cleans up after himself. I live with my brother now and he could care LESS if things are dirty and as a result he doesn't really have an apprciation for me keeping the house clean, and to top it off, he doesn't clean up after himself so it's extra work for me. I will not will not will not marry and man like that.
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Stephanie
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Obviously you have to be physically attracted to the person AND there's that little thing call chemistry that's somewhat unexplainable but oh so important.
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Stephanie
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