Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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especially people in the military... join the army and asked to be stationed in japan.. im sure they'll hook you up...
 
SamIam said:
you can date a girl wherever you like.... if you can do long distance and you have the money to fly back and forth to japan.... as for the rest of what you said.......... i think you should shave your head bald paint your face blue and scream FREEEEEEDDOOOOOMMMM at the woman you wanna date....
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That would work for me :)
 
see..... thats what im talkin bout....... women like that kinda stuff hahaha
 
dothackzero said:
So then I should date a girl in japan then?

What whould you think if I got most of the back of my cut off and left the hair on my front and sides long?
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Dude I was thinking about recommending that you get a haircut, but I decided not to. BUT, since you brought it up, if I were you, I would definitely get a haircut. Don't go for the short hair at the back long hair at the front emo look. That's whack. Go to a hair place where women cut your hair, and say, hey ladies, I wanna look smoooooth, and they'll decide what looks good for you. But make an appointment - those places you need to ring in advance.

Disclaimer: I do not do this, but my brother does, and he gets girls.
 
Seeing as how we have about "80%" similarity... lol, I suppose I can give first hand advice! Perhaps Ur just not "godly" enough for her... or perhaps U don't put out enough effort (work) towards having Ur desired companion. Agree or disagree, U may never know what she (women) wants, but if U go only by what she "says", U'll be in a world of hurt. Ur best bet is to actually KNOW the woman Ur dealing with. To answer Ur question: " Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?" - There is no such thing because there is only ONE who is perfect. There will ALWAYS be temptations to debate & argue in life, which followers of Christ are called to correct by sound reasoning or good council. Love is the foundation upon which all relationships must be built. If not, whatever is built will not last the storm (test).
 
missy2shoes said:
I'm not one of them lol
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chelsers said:
Me either :)
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erm....I need to go get a hair cut XP. At least my pic avatar has short hair! ( or a hat to cover it up)


Zero, your hair loojs jsut like my friend Aaron, seriously. he wanted to get it long enough so he coukd put it in a ponytail...i don'y know how many people like it, but some of my femalke friends 9 including his gf) like it, but ithink people in general were kinda standoffish to it. But hey dud,e think of it like this, if you try to cut it and get it styled,whats the worst that can happen? you can always grow it back!
 
Kakashi said:
erm....I need to go get a hair cut XP. At least my pic avatar has short hair! ( or a hat to cover it up)


Zero, your hair loojs jsut like my friend Aaron, seriously. he wanted to get it long enough so he coukd put it in a ponytail...i don'y know how many people like it, but some of my femalke friends 9 including his gf) like it, but ithink people in general were kinda standoffish to it. But hey dud,e think of it like this, if you try to cut it and get it styled,whats the worst that can happen? you can always grow it back!
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woooaah dude, you're not usually one for typos man. Everything ok? lol
 
Sharp said:
woooaah dude, you're not usually one for typos man. Everything ok? lol
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Haha, yes when I posted that it was probably late and I was tired. It's been such a long week for me with little sleep. I'm perfectly fine now, thank you!
 
I'm in a similar situation. I've actually had it all though. I'm 20, had a GF for almost 2 years up until about 2 months ago when she broke up with me. She was my best friend which is why it was so amazing. Definately thought I was going to marry her, no doubt about it. She even had a website with different things like guests, rings, dresses, yeah. Now she's gone. I feel like I will never ever find someone like her again. She slightly left the door open to be together in the future, but forget that. What about now? You say that no girl has ever came up to you or anything, right? Me neither. It's like I'm back at square 1 again. I have days where I'm down, like this morning, but I have days where I am super confident and ready to go. All your friends have girlfriends. At least you have good friends there for you. You could just be by yourself, gotta appreciate certain things. Look at yourself and things that you do, are there things that are major turnoffs for girls? You don't wanna creep em out.
 
If it makes u feel better Dothackzero bro I am with u on this single ride! Also saving myself for the woman God has for me! I have kissed a girl before and its really nothing special unless its with the woman u plan on marrying! But hey man God is in control and we as single guys have to be excited that we are single because singleness is a gift from God! Until we know how singleness is a gift how then can we move on to marriage as a gift? Look bro Im 24 now or next month Ill be 24 and still single and loving it for real! Because I know God is preparing me for when I do get that special woman of God Ill know how to treat her how God wants me to treat her! Until then keep serving God and stay in His will!
 
I recommend you read the book I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris. It completely changed the way a saw relationships. It talks about romantic relationships, and any relationship with the opposite sex the way God intended it to be and how to get ready for your future spouse. God does not want to ruin His daughter's life by putting her together with someone who's not ready to take care of her and will make her suffer. So don't expect Him to bring someone to you when you're not ready for her. No, I'm not saying that God has a wife for you. He might or He might not. He will do what's best for you to bring you closer to Him and also that person He'll bring into your life.

I hope you'll really take into consideration getting that book.
 
you have all it takes to get a good lady, just keep waiting a little longer, she is probably not near your place even not in your church let me guess she could be far across the ocean so don't worry Gods choice is the best so you better wait or else you will get the wrong rib.you know what Isaac the son of Abraham had to go back to his fathers land to get his rib. so continue praying. God grant you the wishes of your heart.
 
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