The Bible does say not to be unequally yoked. God has a reason for all things, He is all-powerful and able to control any circumstance.
It just so happened that Joe was able to attend the Christian concert and Daphne was not. It just so happened that this conversion took place before they were married and not after. Joe's heart was opened to the Holy Spirit of God, but Daphne closed and hardened her heart because of her past.
The further they get along in their relationship, the more the yoke will tend to break. Joe has started to move along in his journey with God and Daphne remains unfazed; she's open to the idea of God but not to Christianity, just like she was before. As Joe moves more and more towards God, Daphne will slow him down as the result of an unequal yoke. The Bible says "husbands, how do you know whether you will save your wives?" There is no guarantee at all that she will eventually become a Christian; by staying with her, he is risking his relationship with God. At that point, who cares about human-offered love and affection, who cares how "hot" she is, who cares about how "open to spiritual things" she is? As the Bible says, what good is it to gain the whole world and forfeit your soul?
Break it off. Joe is not the same guy that Daphne got engaged to. He is a new creation in Christ Jesus. He has been born again. Part of tearing off his old self includes his old girlfriend.
It just so happened that Joe was able to attend the Christian concert and Daphne was not. It just so happened that this conversion took place before they were married and not after. Joe's heart was opened to the Holy Spirit of God, but Daphne closed and hardened her heart because of her past.
The further they get along in their relationship, the more the yoke will tend to break. Joe has started to move along in his journey with God and Daphne remains unfazed; she's open to the idea of God but not to Christianity, just like she was before. As Joe moves more and more towards God, Daphne will slow him down as the result of an unequal yoke. The Bible says "husbands, how do you know whether you will save your wives?" There is no guarantee at all that she will eventually become a Christian; by staying with her, he is risking his relationship with God. At that point, who cares about human-offered love and affection, who cares how "hot" she is, who cares about how "open to spiritual things" she is? As the Bible says, what good is it to gain the whole world and forfeit your soul?
Break it off. Joe is not the same guy that Daphne got engaged to. He is a new creation in Christ Jesus. He has been born again. Part of tearing off his old self includes his old girlfriend.