You teach people how to treat you. If a guy is disrespectful in your opinion, he should be told. Boundaries are really important. I'm not into the whole girls chasing boys thing, however, I will express interest to a point. I WILL NOT confess feelings first. I will not call him first until a relationship has been established. If he wants a date, he has to ask until I'm comfortable enough to ask him to do something. That particular time line isn't well established. It really depends on the first or second date and the interactions we've had. I think that men should be men, and women should be willing. However, I don't think every man has to chop down trees, or rebuild engines, or whatever. Nor do all women have to be clad in jewelry, skirts, and drive soccer mom cars. I'm a girly girl. I love make up, getting my hair done, etc, but I'm going to be a nurse. I will be up to my elbows in blood, guts, and whatever else. I'm not afraid of that mess. On the other hand I have little to no desire to go hunting, clean fish, or other icky things guys do.