Now, also as far as the responsibility of man for being saved, it is ONLY His responsibility to come to the 'wedding feast' with the proper 'garment,' which is..... ? I think it's righteousness myself, one needs to be in right standing with God, and, the king immediately noticed this man going to the wedding feast in parable of the wedding feast was WITHOUT the proper 'garment.' It wasn't 'garments,' it was one garment, so to speak. And, when God tells you to do something you are to DO IT.
Or else
Who knows/ Great is the mercy of God. But, yes, there is no reason in the world to think that man is in control, God is sovereign, He knows, but man does have a mind and God KNOWS exactly what that man's mind is thinking, has thought, will think....
And, when Jesus says , 'Many are called, few are chosen,' He is speaking of those who He KNOWS will choose Him. Some don't need to be called because their choice is ALREADY MADE
Pharoah is a GREAT example of someone who's choice was already made, God never needed to call Pharoah to salvation because God knew already Pharoah's heart was not for following the will of God. This, of course, was a CONSCIOUS CHOICE by Pharoah but God KNEW exactly what that choice was going to be before Pharoah was born. (Psalms 139) . God KNOWS all. NO denying it. He KNOWS. God still can get GRIEVED. God still can suffer human feelings, IF He chooses, there is NOTHING God cannot do that is GOOD, or BAD, to further His sovereign control. And, grieving when man was sinning,incesting, all over the place in early bible times of Noah (Gen. 5) explains the awesome wonder of our great God, who soooo loves us and sooo wants us to choose Him
and not other ones and not other things. Or, He can and He will 'flood' out our lives
God is the same yesterday, today, and, forevermore.
It is important to note, He will NOT tempt anyone with evil and He will not lie, per Scripture.