Ok now I have read every response here. It took me some time as you might imagine. I have a lot to say. I think first I would like to discuss faith.
I practice thanking God for all things because I trust God implicitly. So I thank God for every post and every word in each post. I thank God for each poster and even for the sins which have been committed here. IT is not important to me that any of you believe what I believe. IT is written the only thing that matters is faith expressing itself through love. EAch of us should live our lives according to what we believe and God will lift up the humble and bring down the proud. Considering these things, I am going to share with all of you what I believe and why. IF any here find my beliefs to be more wise than their own feel free to adopt them. IF you consider me to be misled, feel free to leave my opinions as they are and do not adopt them. I am your servant in Christ. Not your master or lord, and though I consider I am called by God to lead, My leadership can not be like those who had power over the gentiles and lorded it over them. As it is written, the one who would lead must make himself a servant to all. I am your servant. Not your boss. God is our God. I worship Him only. HE alone is worthy of all glory and honor and praise. All authority and power come from HIm.
My beliefs:
Scripture records sin. From the sins of Adam and Eve to the sins of David to the sins of the apostles. I think we would all be in agreement about this no?
How are we saved? Are we saved by the law? NO. OUr salvation is by grace through faith. This is not from ourselves but from God. So do we live as servants to the law or do we live(and have salvation) by grace? Are we not free from the law of sin and death? Lets examine some other parts of scripture which I believe shed light on the passages which have been quoted by others promoting this line of thinking that women should not be pastors or leaders.
Acts 13:39
Through him everyone who believes is set free from every sin, a justification you were not able to obtain under the law of Moses.
Romans 6:14
For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.
Galatians 3:10
For all who rely on the works of the law are under a curse, as it is written: “Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law.”
Galatians 5:18
But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
Lets look at other things Paul preached that seem contrary to what he said in this passage:
1cor14:34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says.
Dont we remember Paul opposed Cephas? What was this rebuke about?
Galations chp 2
aul Opposes Cephas
11 When Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face, because he stood condemned. 12 For before certain men came from James, he used to eat with the Gentiles. But when they arrived, he began to draw back and separate himself from the Gentiles because he was afraid of those who belonged to the circumcision group. 13 The other Jews joined him in his hypocrisy, so that by their hypocrisy even Barnabas was led astray.
14 When I saw that they were not acting in line with the truth of the gospel, I said to Cephas in front of them all, “You are a Jew, yet you live like a Gentile and not like a Jew. How is it, then, that you force Gentiles to follow Jewish customs?
15 “We who are Jews by birth and not sinful Gentiles 16 know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the law, because by the works of the law no one will be justified.
17 “But if, in seeking to be justified in Christ, we Jews find ourselves also among the sinners, doesn’t that mean that Christ promotes sin? Absolutely not! 18 If I rebuild what I destroyed, then I really would be a lawbreaker.
19 “For through the law I died to the law so that I might live for God. 20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. 21 I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!”
This passage among others(like romans chp 7 and many other similar passages) Speak clearly that we live by grace not by the law. The verse where paul and then timothy say they do not permit women to speak(paul admits freely "as the law says") and timothy does not say This is God's word but says "I do not permit." Paul rebuked Cephas for doing elsewhere what HE himself is doing here. This is the same rebuke that Jesus gave the pharisees and saducees "you heap burdens on others while you yourselves are not willing to lift a finger" He was of course speaking of the burdens of the law because the pharisees even though they were all law breakers were insistant that the flock obey the entire law.
Along the same point. Do any of you remember the guy who was chosen to replace Judas? Remember the apostles cast lots? LEts look at the verses. The story goes from acts chp 1 vs 12 to acts chp one:26 "Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles."
You know people still today cast lots believing God's will can be decided this way? Why dont we know Matthias? Can anyone give me an account of his apostleship? I think this is the one and only time his name is mentioned. Why? Because the man God had chosen to replace Judas wasnt there. It seems fairly obvious to me God chose Saul from tarsus(who became Paul) to fill Judas position as an apostle. So how does this fit in?
The apostles casting lots was sinful. It is easy for those with open eyes to see. Matthias was not chosen by God to replace Judas, Paul was. IN the same line, Paul writing that women should remain silent in church was equally sinful. HE even stated it..."as the law says." YEt Paul understood and wrote that we are no longer under the law but under grace.
You know there are people who teach that men should have many wives because David was called a man after God's heart and David had hundreds of wives. David was called a man after God's heart in spite of his many wives not because of them. IN spite of his adultry and murder of Uriah not because of them.
LEt me show each of you the absolute absurdity I see in this entire subject. Which of us would dream of telling God what to do??? Is it appropiate to say to God, you serve me do as I say? HOw then could we consider it even remotly Godly to tell anyone else what they should or shouldnt do? Isnt it written, whatsoever you do to the least of these you do unto me??? IF you wouldnt dream of telling God what to do then neither should any of us think it is our job to tell any other person what to do. I do not think these things belong within the body of Christ. The one who leads must make himself servant to all. A servant does not command his master but serves in obedience. I am your servant in Christ. Joseph