Shy, you cannot lose your salvation, ever. Do not listen to those who think they are maintaining their salvation by works.
Rom 11:16 For if the firstfruit be holy, the lump is also holy: and if the root be holy, so are the branches.
Rom 11:17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert graffed in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree;
Rom 11:18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee.
Rom 11:19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be graffed in.
Rom 11:20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear:
Rom 11:21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
Rom 11:22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
Rom 2:3 And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God?
Rom 2:4 Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?
Rom 2:5 But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God;
Rom 2:6 Who will render to every man according to his deeds:
Rom 2:7 To them who by patient continuance in well doing seek for glory and honour and immortality, eternal life:
Rom 2:8 But unto them that are contentious, and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath,
Rom 2:9 Tribulation and anguish, upon every soul of man that doeth evil, of the Jew first, and also of the Gentile;
Rom 2:10 But glory, honour, and peace, to every man that worketh good, to the Jew first, and also to the Gentile:
Rom 2:11 For there is no respect of persons with God.
Rev 22:10 And he saith unto me, Seal not the sayings of the prophecy of this book: for the time is at hand.
Rev 22:11 He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.
Rev 22:12 And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be.
Rev 22:13 I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last.
Rev 22:14 Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
Rev 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
'For by grace (which teaches Tit 2:11-12) you have been saved through faith (obedient yielding Heb 11). And this is not your own doing (not of anything we do apart from God); it is the gift of God (the gift of God is eternal life THROUGH Jesus Christ Rom 6:23, we must ABIDE in Christ (Joh 15:3-4), the Spirit of life IN Jesus Christ sets us free (Rom 8:2) ,But to all who did receive him (recieved Him by laying aside all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness Jam 1:21), who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,[SUP]13 [/SUP]who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God (God raises us up by his power when we receive Him (Joh 1:12), having repented and converted (Act 3:19), whereby we put off the body of sins by the circumsion of Christ and then were raised up by God's power (Col 2:11-12). But to all who did receive him (again, one must lay aside all known sin in order to receive Christ Jam 1:21), who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,[SUP]13 [/SUP]who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,[SUP]13 [/SUP]who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God, not a result of works (not a result of keeping the rules and rituals of the mosaic law or any other law, this does not negate works of faith Heb 11, 2Pet 1:5-11), so that no one may boast." Eph. 2:8-9 (the boast was in the observance of the law of Moses Rom 2:17)
I was taught this lie for many years in churches where Arminian theology was taught. When I prayed God showed me so many scriptures, which tell us that GOD saves, and we are born again of the Spirit. Arminian theology is in error also for they teach a second work of grace and thus also adhere to salvation apart from heart purity.
“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” John 3:3
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead," 1 Peter 1:3
To be born of God, means you are his child. God does not cast out his children. (God cast out Adam, God cut off the children of Israel. Has God changed?) There is a small point in which we are walking with God and we obey him and try to please him. But not because we FEAR losing our salvation, but because we love Jesus so much. And we are not perfect, so when we do sin, it will cut off our fellowship with God if we do not repent.
If you disobey it cuts you off from God. If you are still disobedient you probably never repented in the first place but only experienced worldly sorrow.
"But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God." John 1:12-13.
God bless you, "He will never leave or forsake you." Hebrews 13:5, Deut. 31:6
Yet you can leave and forsake Him. God is patient and God is kind but don't count on his patience and kindness as approval of rebellion or that rebellion won't put you in hell.