Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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You said in your first post that you don't even have female friends...i.e. the girls who hang out with you don't even consider you as a friend. You also said that you're shy and have low self confidence.

Seems like your problem is more than just about getting a girlfriend. Its also about socializing and making friends with girls your age.

You've already accepted that you're shy and suffer with low self confidence. Admitting it is the first step. The next step is to work on it. Now there are a lot of people who'll tell you about different ways to overcome this. But it all comes down to you taking the "risk" and facing your fears.

Work on overcoming your shyness. Do things that will help you boost your self confidence. Approach random girls and talk to them. They won't be very receptive at first, some may even think you're a creep....but that's okay. You're just doing this to get the shyness off of your system. And the more confident you get in talking to girls, the more receptive they'll become.

Wish you all the best.

Cheers!
 
Silex said:
Seems like your problem is more than just about getting a girlfriend. Its also about socializing and making friends with girls your age.
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Yep, I know it probably is 90% of my problem... Sadly it's not one that'll easlly be fixed. >_<
 
Its easy to say just do this or just do that...... but when you have social problems like that.. it aint that easy
 
chelsers said:
Yes and get yourself a gold digger :)
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Chelsers, do you think my new hair cut is sex? :p And no, I don't want a gold digger. I'd actually wanna a girl that knows how to save money instead of one that spends one that spends everything she has, and my money.
 
dothackzero said:
Chelsers, do you think my new hair cut is sex? :p And no, I don't want a gold digger. I'd actually wanna a girl that knows how to save money instead of one that spends one that spends everything she has, and my money.
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Lol, it's very nice, I like it!
 
Z-e-N said:
Sorry brah, some of us guys with a lot of self respect have standards and will not settle on just anyone.


Sounds like you didn't read her post at all. She didn't say she wanted a high class lifestyle, she said she wants someone who will pay the bills and provide like a man should. Guys that accuse women of being gold diggers are usually the guys that are being paid minimum wage while living with mommy.
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i wonder how much hunters make
 
Avoca1 said:
Compliments wont get you far with me seoulsearch.
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That's a good thing, because I NEVER give compliments. It's completely against everything I stand for. Just ask Kakashi. :) By the way, Avoca, welcome to Christian Chat... glad you're here and hope you'll hang with us for a while.
 
DTZ, your haircut is wicked dude. You look like someone who means business, go get 'em brah
 
what is a brah???? seriously ....... is it like you dont know how to spell brother or are you trying to say bra????
 
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