the Ugly appreciation thread (no joke)
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No this is a joke. I saw what you said in the other thread. I know what you really think. And i can see how Seul came into this thread that's supposed to be saying good things about (psh) and ignores me and talks about you. This is the crap on here i'm talking about.
And no, i don't want a thread like this. Especially not made by someone trying to look like the 'good guy' in all this. So you and your little follower Souel can just go off and be together and leave me alone.
And no, i don't want a thread like this. Especially not made by someone trying to look like the 'good guy' in all this. So you and your little follower Souel can just go off and be together and leave me alone.
That's not what this is, Ugly. I didn't ask Kim to post anything in here and I made sure not to reply to it because I didn't want this to be about me. If you really think that is what this is about then I am sorry I made this thread. Do you think it was easy for me to make this for you? Believe me I gave it some thought and now I am sorry I did.
I don't know what you mean by saying you know what I think of you. I only pointed to what truly happened between me you and that girl in that thread. If you think I'm just making things up to make myself look good or if I am somehow bending the truth to make you look like the bad guy or whatever then cal me on it. Tell me what I said that was wrong or made up.
I see now that you are just either in too much pain to see things clearly or you truly aren't worth the effort of trying to reach out to. I actually prayed for you when you were in the hospital. I've liked several of your posts. I've never even argued with you. If you still think this thread is a joke, then the joke is on you because I made this thread in complete sincerity.
I don't know what you mean by saying you know what I think of you. I only pointed to what truly happened between me you and that girl in that thread. If you think I'm just making things up to make myself look good or if I am somehow bending the truth to make you look like the bad guy or whatever then cal me on it. Tell me what I said that was wrong or made up.
I see now that you are just either in too much pain to see things clearly or you truly aren't worth the effort of trying to reach out to. I actually prayed for you when you were in the hospital. I've liked several of your posts. I've never even argued with you. If you still think this thread is a joke, then the joke is on you because I made this thread in complete sincerity.
Ok, I'm linking the original thread that this is all about. (I know, bad idea) I want it here for reference in case people's imaginations start running wild thinking about what was said. Note in post #3 she states how she was clearly hurt and offended.
http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/59490-searching-christian-life-partner.html
..and I went ahead and UNliked post #5 because that is what Ugly is on me about (for liking that post).
http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/59490-searching-christian-life-partner.html
..and I went ahead and UNliked post #5 because that is what Ugly is on me about (for liking that post).
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Don't let people bully you, Zero. If you like the post, then like it. Don't subject yourself to control and manipulation.
I haven't seen you treat people disrespectfully and harshly on a regular basis.
I think of 1 Corinthians 13 and the description of love.
Open rebuke is better than secret love.
The fool hates correction and despises instruction.
There are a few I have noticed that are quick to sink their claws into people; ESPECIALLY into people from nations other than the United States, Canada, England, and Australia. Not all nations think it unacceptable to be bold and forthright about finding a mate. Honestly I think they are acting more fearlessly and godly when it comes to this. Just pointing out my observation.
You are not in the wrong here, Zero, and you have went farther than needed to make peace.
Appreciation? I have appreciated some of the posts that Ugly has made but NOT the ones where he has quickly jumped on people though. There is nothing wrong with people announcing that they are single and looking. Trying to make people look bad for doing so IS wrong.
If there is a policy that says that a person may NOT create a thread solely for this purpose, politely point it out. Otherwise leave them be.
I haven't seen you treat people disrespectfully and harshly on a regular basis.
I think of 1 Corinthians 13 and the description of love.
Open rebuke is better than secret love.
The fool hates correction and despises instruction.
There are a few I have noticed that are quick to sink their claws into people; ESPECIALLY into people from nations other than the United States, Canada, England, and Australia. Not all nations think it unacceptable to be bold and forthright about finding a mate. Honestly I think they are acting more fearlessly and godly when it comes to this. Just pointing out my observation.
You are not in the wrong here, Zero, and you have went farther than needed to make peace.
Appreciation? I have appreciated some of the posts that Ugly has made but NOT the ones where he has quickly jumped on people though. There is nothing wrong with people announcing that they are single and looking. Trying to make people look bad for doing so IS wrong.
If there is a policy that says that a person may NOT create a thread solely for this purpose, politely point it out. Otherwise leave them be.
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I have noticed that the Singles Forum has some really nasty Cliqueing going on. I've also noticed some of the attitudes toward other members the members of that Clique have.
In the past I've stayed out of the Singles Forum because of this. It's also why I stay away from the chat rooms.
I for one do often enjoy your bluntness, and you often say what I am thinking as Ariel has said as well.
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You'll always find cliques...I just let those peeps do what they do...they don't wanna be friends with me,it's no big deal. I haven't been on the forums long either,same as TinTin said...but there are some awesome people I've met...far surpassing the amount of immature ones. Those types usually just do their own thing & that's fine by me,most of the time they really do have anything of interest to say anyways.
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Yes, there will always be cliques or the tendancy to form cliques. I'm not asking for preferential treatment, or even to be liked. What I am saying, is that though I am not endorsing this line: "So you and your little follower Souel can just go off and be together and leave me alone." there is some truth to it. The Singles Forum is dominated by a group of mutual back patters and any dissident quickly ends up the enemy of a multitude. I've mostly watched it from a distance, and I don't much care for it.
Fair enough.
EDIT: I think that the whole clique/mutual back patting stuff is unneccesarily divisive.
Fair enough.
EDIT: I think that the whole clique/mutual back patting stuff is unneccesarily divisive.
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I totally get what yer' sayin' jimmy...it's too bad it can be like that. Easiest thing for me is just avoid reading posts by some people...lol just saves me from getting in the flesh. It's all keeping things in Balance. Too much time spent in CC is just as bad as too much time watching TV,or any other habit that consumes all your time.
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I wasn't aware of any cliques either. Like MissCris I pretty much just barged in and posted. 
I never felt ignored when I was new.
I think it has more to do with we tend to gravitate toward people who think similarly and gravitate away from people who we don't understand as well.
Whenever I dare post the bible discussions area, I'm usually treated like a huge pain in someones behind or like I am a burden of an opinion. I don't take it personally. Not everyone gets me. No big deal. I find somewhere where I feel appreciated. maybe Ugly is doing the same here.
I never felt ignored when I was new.I think it has more to do with we tend to gravitate toward people who think similarly and gravitate away from people who we don't understand as well.
Whenever I dare post the bible discussions area, I'm usually treated like a huge pain in someones behind or like I am a burden of an opinion. I don't take it personally. Not everyone gets me. No big deal. I find somewhere where I feel appreciated. maybe Ugly is doing the same here.
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