My mother forcing my headshave in velankanni

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Meena

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Thank you

You can bring enough honor to your mother by the way you live your life for Jesus so God Bless you and I pray that the Lord turn your sorrow into determination to victory and a closer walk to know Jesus more and that if your are shamed that you by the power of the Holy Spirit to learn and receive victory .. God Bless you Meena ..
 

Meena

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I feel humiliated to meet my friends with my bald head. Even I don't like my face without hair. But this is the only thing she asked me, even though I fought for sometime. At last accepted. I asked her to direct me for 15 minutes and stopped using my mind. I felt that my head was lighter after that.


Thanks for the update. Care to share a little bit of why you decided to go through with it?

I understand honoring your parents, but other than that?



Great job posting back, such an uncommon thing to see :)
 

bojack

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I feel humiliated to meet my friends with my bald head. Even I don't like my face without hair. But this is the only thing she asked me, even though I fought for sometime. At last accepted. I asked her to direct me for 15 minutes and stopped using my mind. I felt that my head was lighter after that.
You are more beautiful than you'll ever know ..
 

Mii

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I feel humiliated to meet my friends with my bald head. Even I don't like my face without hair. But this is the only thing she asked me, even though I fought for sometime. At last accepted. I asked her to direct me for 15 minutes and stopped using my mind. I felt that my head was lighter after that.
Well it's always a nice feeling to have resolution on an issue and have it behind you. Especially when it presents a crisis and you aren't sure on what you should do.

I had that happen with a car issue and eventually it was taken out of my hands and is behind me. Maybe not worth all the stress and agonizing over, but maybe it was. Either way, nice to see you can move forward :)
 

Meena

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Well it's always a nice feeling to have resolution on an issue and have it behind you. Especially when it presents a crisis and you aren't sure on what you should do.

I had that happen with a car issue and eventually it was taken out of my hands and is behind me. Maybe not worth all the stress and agonizing over, but maybe it was. Either way, nice to see you can move forward :)
Well said
 

brighthouse98

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Meena, the bible says we are to honor our parents,not always obey what they say!! Honor means to listen,and consider, period! When they started putting me in bondage I moved out.No one should ever look to control another! I sure as hell would never allow it! Honor and obey are not the same. And when you said you do not believe the Lord wants this,you are doing the right thing!!( Rom 8:14-15)
 

Meena

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Probably, they would have sold it for manufacturing wigs. I don't know for sure. But mostly
 

Mii

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Probably, they would have sold it for manufacturing wigs. I don't know for sure. But mostly
So is your hair growing out again? I've thought of donating my hair for a wig but I'd rather hold onto it to make my own wig or pay for it if I have the resources. If not, I suppose I can just donate the hair anyway.