So definitely no disrespect intended to anyone here: but do you mean that God chooses who is going to receive his Grace?! And if so, on what basis would it be?!
GOD has always wanted everyone to be saved! But HE enabled us to be able to make a choice, between not accepting HIS Grace, and accepting HIS Grace.
Don't forget: HE Loves us all! We're all God's children.
Please excuse my ignorance, but what is the idea with regards to speaking in tongues?!
In other words, why does anyone want to speak in tongues, in the first place?!
What's wrong with speaking in plain English?