Recent content by herkamer63

No I actually don't do this to other people, but I get the feeling you do, based on what I'm reading. Part of what I do for living is to observe and get a feel for people. Your responses and line of questioning is no different than the people I deal with on a day to day basis. Honestly, if...

No, you're angry. The way you worded your responses and the way you took what I said way out of context (like that was the intent) says it all. The way you presented the question of this thread indicates you are. The only thing I'm getting out is the other side of the argument and you don't like...

Okay, now you're knowingly taking what I said out of context. I'm not calling you names here, but rather putting out that you don't understand (and seems like you don't want to). Not understanding something doesn't equate to stupidity and you know that, so don't go there with me. And Lynx is a...

Already told you, people are not willing to listen. It's easy when you have a legion of people on your side, while someone like me who gives the other side of the argument doesn't have the same luxury. Plus I don't have the time like use to have to come up with topics, so there's that too. And...

Why don't I start my own thread on this topic? Simple, tried that and people started to attack me on a personal level. I already got Lynx trolling me, trying to rile me up, so why add more? All they're trying to do is get me to say something I will regret and get banned. Besides, I haven't...

It doesn't invalidate anything. Honestly, the question you asked on here should have been why women NEED to remain pure until marriage. That's far more important because it also applies to men. There are men, that I know, that don't control themselves and should also be told to these guys. But...

This validates what I've been trying to say, and you and I agree that both genders have problems. This you will hear no argument from me on that. With what you just explained to me is exactly what's going on with men on a mental and spiritual level. Many women today manipulate men as if it were...

I don't expect you to answer everything I throw out. And let's be honest here, you do it, too, and so do many others on here. I've read previous posts that you put up and it's no different. That's okay, though, because I want you to have opinions. I haven't personally attacked you and I'm not...

BTW, thanks for having my back. I don't think these guys understand the struggle of being single and in the dating world. Now, it's tempting asking out that one woman I mentioned that I met in my ballroom dancing, but I'm REALLY trying to stay single for now. I don't know if she's a flirt or if...

If you go to a winery with entertainment or a brewery, or just a place that has a decent size floor with entertainment. Ballroom studios will even hold their own events as well. The lady have some interest in and I were looking at some potentials, and I think I have an idea of where to go. One...

And I forgot to point out, there have been MANY Christian women that have fallen victim to this. I hope someday I get married to a woman who has given her life to Christ and had not committed adultery. I understand if they're divorced due to a man being abusive and/or unfaithful and had kids...

And this is where I push back because I read through your thread again. I stand by what I posted, and no, I'm not taking anything that you said out of context. You clearly don't know what is that normal men go through. Even going through grade school, normal guys don't exhibit the behavior you...

Why are women expected to be the gatekeepers of virginity: Okay, as many people said on here, both men and women need to be. I don't know where you're getting off implying that women are the ONLY ones that need to be, but whatever, if that's the way you feel, and I'll be happy to provide an...

Yes to all this. Unless if you're a Chad, it is very difficult for men to go out with women. We don't have a problem with women that are independent. That's not what we have a problem with. We don't like to be beaten down, belittled, and demonized just because we don't meet standards that many...

I may have to take you up on that. The 3 books, I believe, are important are Genesis, Daniel, and Matthew. If I get some time, I'll shoot you a message on the call.