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    So are gays/lesbians nonelects? How do people become gays/lesbians?

    There is no such thing as gay as it is commonly stated. This is a term for people addicted to a certain form of lust to identify with. People who identify with these desires become addicted through entertaining certain thoughts and allowing those to become temptations. Then they act on those...
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    I need someone to save me.

    God says no sex outside of marriage. God says to not be found wanting. God says not to lean on your own understanding but to seek Him to direct you. The pain you're feeling is natural of the flesh and understandable but your "solution" would only make everything worse and separate you from...
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    Same teacher.

    Thank you very much for sharing and the warm welcome!😁
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    Same teacher.

    To anyone taking the time to read this, thank you.:) I see a lot of posts on here of all sorts, but one theme common in most is a desire to share. Sadly I notice how easy it is for self to get in the way of the guidance of our Lord when someone may not be on the same page as we are. Sound...
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    Do we understand biblical truths

    Early in my walk I strongly focused on the otiot and strongs and any source that helped me get as close to the original meanings as I was able. God has long since pressed it on my heart that the semantics often aren't as important as the principals still present to this day. What is most...
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    At What Point is Lust a Sin?

    So God tells us to hold every thought captive. "Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ" There will be thoughts that occur but noticing them before you entertain them...
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    Question of the day

    If a man and a woman who both love Christ are together, they would also both be vigilant about what can lead to temptations. One man and woman may not be able to be alone together because if they are honest, one or both of them would not be strong enough to say "no" to the other if the other...
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    Emotional affair..... should I tell my husband?

    I think the most righteous thing to do is come clean and not keep secrets from your husband, but understand it's hard to do that when he kept secrets from you. I pray God leads you to doing what is best and I am sorry that you and your husband have been so effected by this and hope you two...
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    Confidence is Attractive?

    I don't find confidence attractive. I don't find it repulsive either. When I think about what is and is not attractive in a woman, their level of confidence wouldn't even make the list if I was asked to somehow come up with 100 things I like or dislike or look for.
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    Older single children living with their parents....

    What are my thoughts? I wouldn't really judge someone for living with their parents or at least not by that one fact alone. It could be a positive if the individual still living with their parents was very helpful and grateful to still be there. It would be a negative if they were entitled...
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    Intermediate passive aggression

    Nah. Words have meaning and even if you don't intend for something to be a part of your message, your words may imply more than one thing. I think this is more about perception and the english language than biology or gender.🤣 I remember in my teens and early 20's when people would say I was...
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    Intermediate passive aggression

    It is a dangerous profession. I actually have experience myself but also had to weigh the risks and rewards around middle school. I've since put that life behind me. I'll tell you what though, I was crazy fast for a chubby kid.
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    Intermediate passive aggression

    I'm gonna take dingus too then while youre thinkin.
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    Intermediate passive aggression

    Twerp....? 🤔🤔🤔