With regards to whose money is it?
IF we go by the standard I read here........then I must ask if people are OK with their BOSS telling them how to spend their money, and what on...........I mean, it really is his money. You may have worked to receive it, but it was his money when he gave it to you, and it is his money after you get it...........according to the standard I see being spoken of here.
Not everyone who receives Financial Assistance from the Government is unemployed, or just lazy folks sitting on their butts.