Can you make whore into a housewife?

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flight316

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Ok let me clarify a few things. I purposely worded the op the way I did to speak boldly about the subject. I took an old sayinig that hhas been arond for mamany years and applied it to todays culture. I am not a woman basher. The term does apply to both men and women. I decided to talk about this subject after listening to several women express that they live their lives in this fasion, yet youwould never know just by lookining at them. These are women who go to church regularly and when in public are very lady like.. they are mothers and some are even married. I just thought that the discussion might help some young man or young woman to make a better choiceif they would listen to some of the things that you all have to say about the subject. I wish that someone had given me some good strong spiritual advice before I slept with all the women tha I could when I was a young man. It caused so many unnecessary problems for me as I was trying to grow up.. so that being said please use this opportunity to advise and council some body just might get something out of it and save themselves from a lifetime of problems that can be avoided.
 
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Ariel82

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Can YOU?

no but God can.

He also rescues murderers and all other sinners and makes them into His beloved children.
 
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I know, it sounds ugly, I know, the nerve of this guy to use such a derogatory word. Well the word derives from the bible. Is there even a such thing as a housewife anymore? What is that. Whether you know it or not there are many young women out here that think its cute to be a whore. Yet they don't want to be labled as one. They also desire to be someones wife. Go figure. Well , to all aspiring whores maybe you think twice before trying that lifestyle. People have a tendency to hold that against you , even the person that you think is your confidant. I'm not trying to be mean or unfair or judgemental. I'm just saying it may not be wise to give into lustful temtations because you think that no one will find out. Oh contrare. God sees it and what's done in the dark will come to the light.
Au contraire!

Gen 3:14 And the Lord God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou art cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: 15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel. (KJV)
 
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I know, it sounds ugly, I know, the nerve of this guy to use such a derogatory word. Well the word derives from the bible. Is there even a such thing as a housewife anymore? What is that. Whether you know it or not there are many young women out here that think its cute to be a whore. Yet they don't want to be labled as one. They also desire to be someones wife. Go figure. Well , to all aspiring whores maybe you think twice before trying that lifestyle. People have a tendency to hold that against you , even the person that you think is your confidant. I'm not trying to be mean or unfair or judgemental. I'm just saying it may not be wise to give into lustful temtations because you think that no one will find out. Oh contrare. God sees it and what's done in the dark will come to the light.
God-fearing housewives do exist despite the apparently forlorn disposition of the OP. Not all women (or men, for that matter) are whores nor are they all desirous of marriage. I believe a man would be at peace within himself if he were not hindered by his own passions and lusts. People are too often drawn away by their passions and are too desirous for the transitory things in life. Remember all is short which passes away with time (Wisdom 3:9). Seek first the Kingdom of God and His justice (Matthew 6:33).
 

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This should have been can you make a Ho into a housewife...because late 90s/early 2000s ludacris rhymes were pretty good. But no you cant they dont act right.(jk)

Sure some people can if thats what you want. personally Id prefer someone who was a little less loose with her sexual decisions. I never whored it up, I think its fair to expect the same.
 
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overthechill

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Love the defense of women ThriftShopPop and you're quite right! I happen to believe we're all whores and reformed whores and I think I'd rather live next to the whore. See signature.
 
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danschance

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Why would you start a thread like this??

It seems obvious to me that flight316 has some sort of issues with women. Women do not need to be offended or belittled by any man and especially not a man who claims to be a christian. As a man I find this thread offensive.

I hope this thread gets locked or deleted.
 
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Psalms Chapter 127

Viewing the king James version(kjv)

1 (A Song of degrees for Solomon.) Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

I think that only GOD can change someone.Whom the Son
sets free is free indeed.
 

starfield

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None of this has absolutely nothing to do with this post. I can understanding your point about having morals (I am assuming this is what you are talking about?) But the point is this is bluntly put; can you make a whore into a housewife.

My point is based on this. Men can be "whores" if not MORE than women. Why do "evangelical Christians" always point the finger at women who "sleep around" and feel the need to hold them accountable, but when men do the exact same thing, we laugh it off and say "oh that's ok, Men are sup post to sleep around. They are the dominant sex and allowed to do whatever they want"

I don't care if we talk about the morals of sex or not.

But I wont stand for sexist and horribly thought out posts by men who don't look at this issue holistically.
I haven't met an evangelical Christian that condones men sleeping around. I don't see anything cool about male promiscuity/womanizing but perhaps one reason for society being more critical on female promiscuity is that women are more adversely affected - she's the one who carries an unwanted pregnancy, probably end up on welfare, etc. Anyway, I doubt that the OP had bad intentions in creating this thread. He does have a point. It’s just a reminder for us women to treat ourselves with dignity and love our bodies (God’s temple) :). Our actions have consequences whether good or bad, we reap what we sow, so make responsible decisions.
 
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flight316

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I've read your posts. Many of you act like you are so sensitive to the op. You act as if you are so offened by the subject matter. Yet none of you have accused me of lying in the post. The truth of the matter is that its reality. Must everything be sugar coated for you. No one needs you to defend them. There is no defense for reality. It is what it is. And why are some of you taking the op so personally. If I was talking about you I would have put you name in the op. You must really have a problem when you read the scriptures and see that word. Open your mind its not about you. Its a topic of discusstion. God bless and have a nice day.
 
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flight316

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Hey Praus are you also Mos Def? By the way thanks for correcting my French .
 
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Ariel82

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I know, it sounds ugly, I know, the nerve of this guy to use such a derogatory word. Well the word derives from the bible. Is there even a such thing as a housewife anymore?
yes of course, haven't you seen the tv show?

sarcasm aside... I actually know quite a few godly housewives who love their husband and their children.

What is that.
Proverbs 31: 10-31

Whether you know it or not there are many young women out here that think its cute to be a whore. Yet they don't want to be labled as one. They also desire to be someones wife. Go figure. Well , to all aspiring whores maybe you think twice before trying that lifestyle. People have a tendency to hold that against you , even the person that you think is your confidant. I'm not trying to be mean or unfair or judgemental. I'm just saying it may not be wise to give into lustful temtations because you think that no one will find out. Oh contrare. God sees it and what's done in the dark will come to the light.
I think you might want to see another side to people than you do.

I know a lot of girls who wanted to be pure and were raped and decided since they could never be pure again, why try?

Its not always about "being cute." sometimes its about regaining power or control of some small part of their lives.

I don't agree with the methods but I understand the motive:

trying to fill a God size hole with worldly things: sex, power, material goods, etc.

You may not be trying to be mean, unfair or judgemental, but that is how your words will be taken.

sometimes you should recognize the wounds before trying to diagnosis or treat the situation.
 
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flight316

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Danschance, how are ya buddy? Why, shock value. We all have issues that's why we're on this site. I don't make any any claims or put any titles on myself. Its unfortunate that you feel offende d. Mayybe you will get your wish and the thread will beleted or locked. Non the less in the meantime try to relax it will be over soon.
Why would you start a thread like this??

It seems obvious to me that flight316 has some sort of issues with women. Women do not need to be offended or belittled by any man and especially not a man who claims to be a christian. As a man I find this thread offensive.

I hope this thread gets locked or deleted.
 
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flight316

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Danschance, how are ya buddy? Why, shock value. We all have issues that's why we're on this site. I don't make any any claims or put any titles on myself. Its unfortunate that you feel offende d. Mayybe you will get your wish and the thread will beleted or locked. Non the less in the meantime try to relax it will be over soon.
Why would you start a thread like this??

It seems obvious to me that flight316 has some sort of issues with women. Women do not need to be offended or belittled by any man and especially not a man who claims to be a christian. As a man I find this thread offensive.

I hope this thread gets locked or deleted.
 
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flight316

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Oops posted twice, sorry.
 
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Hey Praus are you also Mos Def? By the way thanks for correcting my French .
No, Mos Def is Muslim, but he's also a brilliant iconoclast. Praus is in the New Testament:

James 4:14 yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.
 
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I've read your posts. Many of you act like you are so sensitive to the op. You act as if you are so offened by the subject matter. Yet none of you have accused me of lying in the post. The truth of the matter is that its reality. Must everything be sugar coated for you. No one needs you to defend them. There is no defense for reality. It is what it is. And why are some of you taking the op so personally. If I was talking about you I would have put you name in the op. You must really have a problem when you read the scriptures and see that word. Open your mind its not about you. Its a topic of discusstion. God bless and have a nice day.
This is Christian Chat and your original post is adversarial. :mad: What did you expect?

Were you lying?

John 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

Were you honest?

Gen 3:14 And the LORD God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou art cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: 15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.

Rev 20:2 And he laid hold on the dragon, that old serpent, which is the Devil, and Satan, and bound him a thousand years,
 
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flight316

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Yes this is christian chat. You're lthe one with the muslim avatar that I see that you changed. But any wayu no I don't lie. I hate lies. I expected exactly the response that I'm getting from you. Blowing things out of prreportion.. askin ridiculous questions. And injecting scripture tha has nothing to do with this thread. All in some feeble attemp to accuse the breterren. But this is an open forum and you have a riight to your opinion just like everyone else. God bless you friend.g
 
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I've read your posts. Many of you act like you are so sensitive to the op. You act as if you are so offened by the subject matter. Yet none of you have accused me of lying in the post. The truth of the matter is that its reality. Must everything be sugar coated for you. No one needs you to defend them. There is no defense for reality. It is what it is. And why are some of you taking the op so personally. If I was talking about you I would have put you name in the op. You must really have a problem when you read the scriptures and see that word. Open your mind its not about you. Its a topic of discusstion. God bless and have a nice day.
Yes this is christian chat. You're lthe one with the muslim avatar that I see that you changed. But any wayu no I don't lie. I hate lies. I expected exactly the response that I'm getting from you. Blowing things out of prreportion.. askin ridiculous questions. And injecting scripture tha has nothing to do with this thread. All in some feeble attemp to accuse the breterren. But this is an open forum and you have a riight to your opinion just like everyone else. God bless you friend.g
GBU, glad we shined some light on this--it's an interesting thread.