Hey folks, wanting some Christian advice. Here goes...
A guy I have known for years is looking me to go for coffee with him. I always had feelings for him but never made anything of it as he is married with 3 kids.. However.. His wife left him a while back after he caught her sending raunchy messages to other men.. They are not divorced yet but they will prob end up getting divorced. I have told him to try and sort it out with her and to try and make the marriage work ( I hate to see a marriage break up ). Have not said yes to coffee as I don't want to come between them or give the wrong impression to him if he is on the rebound.. What would you do? I wouldn't go near a married man in a romantic way. It would only be as friends..but if he wanted more when they got divorced would I be sinning to date him?
A guy I have known for years is looking me to go for coffee with him. I always had feelings for him but never made anything of it as he is married with 3 kids.. However.. His wife left him a while back after he caught her sending raunchy messages to other men.. They are not divorced yet but they will prob end up getting divorced. I have told him to try and sort it out with her and to try and make the marriage work ( I hate to see a marriage break up ). Have not said yes to coffee as I don't want to come between them or give the wrong impression to him if he is on the rebound.. What would you do? I wouldn't go near a married man in a romantic way. It would only be as friends..but if he wanted more when they got divorced would I be sinning to date him?