Female secretary

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tourist

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Just curious... How did I tell you, you were wrong?

Thank you.
Perhaps I am the one that is in the wrong and I do apologize to you for my responses. I guess that just having a bad hair day but that is not an excuse and I am sorry.
 
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Kerim

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Perhaps I am the one that is in the wrong and I do apologize to you for my responses. I guess that just having a bad hair day but that is not an excuse and I am sorry.
Just a misunderstanding, this could happen even in best families.:)
 
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Oh I laughed when I read the white out words. :)

i asked my my brother once if he thought I was ugly and he pondered for a long time... As this is his nature... Told me an hour later, "You're not ugly, but even if you were, it wouldn't matter because that's not what counts." And if you knew my bro, which you guys don't, it was the sweetest thing he's said to me in a long time. :)
Hmmm! Perhaps you needed to know the truth from a trustworthy source, not from any who might act hypocritical or seeking a "LIKE" on the right side of his heart.

I guess he is (and was) right on this: "...it wouldn't matter because that's not what counts."
 

Atwood

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About 2 decades ago, I hired a secretary.
After a few months at work, she surprised me with a personal question.
She asked me if I can tell her my opinion of how she looks as a female.
I liked to take the opportunity and let her hear something pleasant.
I told her:
“You are not very beautiful. But you are surely not ugly”.
“You are not tall, but not short”.
“You don’t have a creative mind. But you are too far from being dumb”.
“You are not fat and not thin”.

Naturally, she (as some of you here
) didn’t know that it was just the introductory of what she will hear and let her feel very good.

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"Therefore, if I like comparing you to food, you are like bread that a man doesn’t mind eating every day as long as he lives."
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For those who like reading what I told her next, I wrote it between the two dashed lines above using white ink.

It becomes visible if you select it as if you like copying it.
Kerim, we are all dying to know what became of the secretary. Did she die of a broken heart? Did she sue you for harassment? Did she tell her boyfriend, who punched you in the nose? By now you could have had grandchildren. I must say your story is like the start of a romance that fizzled.