I can't see the worth of life, so why am I here?

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I love you, and I speak healing over your feelings and trust that God can and will heal you. He took all the pain so that we would have a second chance. It's about choices now, take it day by day, second by second and make a choice to try and trust him.
 
Arcynaculr

Arcynaculr

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Toska said:
Has there been someone in your life where you were hurt very badly by them? Broken hearted? If that is the case, it would make sense that you would not believe another person could ever love you.

One thing I do know is that God loves you. He has always loved you and always will. You just have to open up your heart to Him and have faith. He is not giving up on you and neither are we. It took me over 40 years to realize that He does love me and He forgives me for the numerous times I sinned before He became a part of my life.

I cannot remember if you have already been asked this so I will ask again. Have you ever considered therapy? The right therapist could really help you. He/she could help you with the feelings of depression you are feeling. They are trained to help you through your problems and come out a much happier problem. I know that is what happened with me during therapy. I am not saying you are crazy or anything like that. Since we are not able to talk to you on the level that you are looking for, a therapist could be the way to get you past the feelings of depression and loneliness you are feeling. Just a thought.

God Bless
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Yes. ive been hurt multiple times. people abandon me. friends and family alike. altho i would not call them true friends. mosy recently my supposedly best internet friend (and best friend ive ever had) left me... just started ignoring me... the only explanation i got was they said that they had "changed"... I still dont understand why they would forsake me... we had a 6 year friendship... i trusted them, i thought they would always be there for me... i just dont understand what happened... now i feel like i cant trust anyone and no one will ever care enough to stay with me.
 
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Arcynaculr said:
Anything i currently have i suppose. if i was sure i would get true lasting joy from giving it up.
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Can you ever be totally sure, before you do anything, how it is going to make you feel?

Life has risks. A lot of risks. But does that mean that you don't do anything to try to improve your situation at all, because you aren't sure if it will work? That doing nothing is better than risking something? Surely not.

If you're ever ready to lose your life in order to find it... Jesus is waiting.

"For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it." ~ Jesus Christ
 
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Arcynaculr said:
Yes. ive been hurt multiple times. people abandon me. friends and family alike. altho i would not call them true friends. mosy recently my supposedly best internet friend (and best friend ive ever had) left me... just started ignoring me... the only explanation i got was they said that they had "changed"... I still dont understand why they would forsake me... we had a 6 year friendship... i trusted them, i thought they would always be there for me... i just dont understand what happened... now i feel like i cant trust anyone and no one will ever care enough to stay with me.
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I am so sorry to hear that. I can understand why you have trust issues. Unfortunately, people do change as they get older. I am not friends with any of the people I went to high school with. We all just grew apart. It makes me very sad to see someone as young as you having these kinds of problems. I know it is easier said than done but, you really need to give new people in your life a chance to get to know you better. You can't keep dwelling in the past.

I have seen several people here reaching out to you, offering you friendship and love. But, you seem to be rejecting the idea of making friends here. I am not saying this to be mean, this is just what appears to be happening when I read all of your posts. Why won't you give anyone here a chance? You could be missing out on a life-long friendship.

I know I am old enough to be your mother but, if you need/want someone to chat with you can pm me. I have been abandoned by 'friends' in the past and I have also suffered from mild depression. I do have a very small amount of insight into how you are feeling. If you do not want to chat with me, I do understand. I only wanted you to know that I am here for you if you need a friend.
 
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Toska said:
I am so sorry to hear that. I can understand why you have trust issues. Unfortunately, people do change as they get older. I am not friends with any of the people I went to high school with. We all just grew apart. It makes me very sad to see someone as young as you having these kinds of problems. I know it is easier said than done but, you really need to give new people in your life a chance to get to know you better. You can't keep dwelling in the past.

I have seen several people here reaching out to you, offering you friendship and love. But, you seem to be rejecting the idea of making friends here. I am not saying this to be mean, this is just what appears to be happening when I read all of your posts. Why won't you give anyone here a chance? You could be missing out on a life-long friendship.

I know I am old enough to be your mother but, if you need/want someone to chat with you can pm me. I have been abandoned by 'friends' in the past and I have also suffered from mild depression. I do have a very small amount of insight into how you are feeling. If you do not want to chat with me, I do understand. I only wanted you to know that I am here for you if you need a friend.
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Hi Toska: Yes people do change as we get older. But as we do so, it's if in faith we can pass through the changes and the years and 'grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ' (2 Peter 3).

Blessings.
 
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Arcynaculr said:
You don't even know me... but thanks anyway.
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We dont need to necessarily know you to be glad that you're here, Arnaculyr. :) But we would love to get to know you more so if you have problems, dont be afraid to talk to us.
 
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Arcynaculr said:
I've been ready for help for years. just can't seem to find it.
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Have you ever ASKED for help Arcynaculr? If not, you are now in the right place to receive help and guidance. :)
 
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