I'm through with people.

Absolutely through with them. Literally I give up on people. I have a while ago but you know what I give up on those who I even still let in. I'm stupid enough to let them in.

I just LOVE how when someone says something that does in fact come off as insensitive and pretty much implies that they don't give about the other, but when I do show that I'm hurt I'm the one apparently in the wrong. I'm the one who 'needs to come back to my senses' and 'deluded and never thinks it's me' when in fact I do know when I am in the wrong. Even apologize to where I deep down feel I shouldn't have done so, mainly because I cared about this person so they wouldn't be mad at me anymore. But to say that when they flat out even say they don't need people like me, I'm done. I might as well give up on trying. It all went to waste. Not even an apology, just to say I'm deluded.

No, I'm not upset. More like I'm furious. No, not even that. When you even care about these very people and tell them this, this is just what I get. I'm deluded. Yeah, I am. I'm deluded to even care about people to begin with, let alone people that I thought could still be worth that at least. Boy was I wrong. I should've went with my instincts the minute I gave second thought not to do so.


Sorry, but I'm just done. I don't care what type of person you are, I'm not going to give you a chance. I don't expect one or was ever given one so why should I. I found out about the one that I stupidly gave my chances to and I can't give anymore. I just regret doing this and I hope I have the hard heart not to let them back in. I'm done. I'm not the one who's going to come back and say sorry. If that's how it ends then so be it.

And to conclude the whole thing, they figured while saying they're a true friend that they can shove down all the issues I've shared with them at me. I'm so done.

You are too young to quit. The fight has only begun. Strengthen yourself for the work the Lord has waiting for you.

........not for nothing........but just awhile back, someone came here to CC and posted pretty much the very same rant........

Now, folks here being concerned for that young person, posted words of Christian love and encouragement, and it ended up it was all for naught.......just a hoax........just seeking attention.......sigh

I honestly don't know who you're talking about or seen anything similar to this, but this rant I gave is real... Take it how you want it, however. I just posted it because I'm upset...

Oh, I see the topics. No, they're not me. I wouldn't have posts made in side-scroll format let alone even know how to do that. But whatever.

I know how you feel. I feel that way often, too. There are worthwhile people out there. But it's just a matter of paying attention to the signs that show that they won't be good friends. Usually they are there, we just don't recognize them or choose to ignore them.
But people are screwed up. Even the best person is screwed up. Sometimes it's easy to expect more of others than we should (i have problems with that). It's good to learn to lower your expectations, sad as that may sound. And go slower.
Nice as it sounds that people can be completely trusted, rarely is that the case.
At any rate, sorry for what you're going through. It sucks, i know.

its when we seek our confidence in anything other than god that we will always be let down in one way or another at some point; whether that be family, friends, finances, career etc. etc. Just keep focused on Jesus. He is constantly the same yesterday today and forever. He will never let us down.. Blessings

I should of went with my instincts....thats what you said....my baby sister that my girl was God.....you just gained yourself
some wisdom.....I use to do this....my instincts as we call them ....something told me...we say....all that is God....your spirit
was warning you...and then we try to explain it away...telling ourselves we are just being silly...making excuses for why we
shouldn't listen to that first feeling ......then we are so funny spending our lives try to know how will we know when God speaks
to us...oh Hes talking we just ignore it...I know its not intentional ...its our man self...fighting the spirit to have our way...
I had to have a tragedy to learn this lesson..II'm happy yours was just frustration...
So have heart and do I count as one of those people you are talking about....cause that would make me sad...
There are Gods people out there stick to us we love you...

It doesn't even matter to me anymore. What is done is done. I shared what I had to say just as they did... I'm aware I have faults and it's quite obvious. But if I'm apparently going to be a problem because of them for a few good years or so then why waste your time... That's the only thing I honestly regret. I don't know how some people get so arrogant enough to think that they can have that type of room to judge when it's obvious when it's pointed out as to what they done in the same manner they done it towards me, they get hurt and I'm still the bad guy. This is all I'm going to even say... I'm done with everyone.

Me too! I'm sick of disappointment. These kids of mine don't appreciate anything. Forget them, they don't listen anyway! My wife always thinks she's right no matter how much reason and rationality stack up against her. I'm tired of making other people rich just so they can lay me off when there's a shortage of work. Why does my mom think she can sit around reading and watching tv all day call on me, the father of four with my own place to maintain, for help in her garden? People suck! I'm going to run away and hide in a cave and wait for Jesus. Or maybe I can just take a few breaths, go find a quiet spot and call on the Lord for peace and guidance. Perhaps God is allowing circumstances into my life to prune me and bring me closer to Him. Maybe I need to see this from Jesus perspective and die a little for the sake of others, even when it hurts and nobody sees it now, but maybe later. As I remove myself from the situation emotionally, it will give me a better understanding of others and even my own reactions. Now God is telling me that in this world there will be tribulation, but I have overcome the world. He tells me to let my light shine in the darkness and my patience will be a testament of the Spirit that dwells inside. He says do not let my emotions nullify my testimony. Ahhh, that's better. Thank you Jesus for opening my eyes and reminding me that you loved me when I was unloveable and now call on me to do the same as I represent you Lord. You Lord are my peace and my resting place. May I bless you this day by blessing those who curse me and doing good to those who harm me. Holy is your Name.

I understand that sometimes one needs to rant to get rid of the frustration, but consider this

if you are through with people, why are you positing your feelings in a public forum?

It is important to find who you are in Jesus and be confident. We can't please everyone. That is what drew me more to God,
people not being real. We should work on being real ourselves so others can see the light of Christ. I have heard the thing
we hate the most is how we can define our calling. The Lord, if you put him first, may give you the gift of discernment.

[video=youtube_share;XrFViBSYPtQ]http://youtu.be/XrFViBSYPtQ[/video]

Thanks, you really know how to lighten the mood. Anyways.


And why I even posted this on the forum. Who knows. It doesn't really change the fact on how I really view anyone on anything so I don't see how posting on a forum where people likely don't know me and I don't know them would make all that of a difference, as clearly shown above. Thank you to all who took the time to answer, anyhow.

People saying things like this make me glad I don't have friends. Heh..being a loner can have its perks.





7 Things You Should Stop Expecting from Others

And I agree, Taylor. Especially if you've associated with people who are manipulative liars as well as those who decide to drop you for 'better people' and now because of this, you do not want to go down that kind of route. It's a no win situation.

There's 2 bumper stickers I've seen that I've thought of getting:

Loosing faith in humanity,
one person at a time

and

The more I suffer humans
the more I love God

People are rude, arrogant without cause, exceedingly ignorant and incredibly self centered. I hate to say it but I do get a perverse sense of satisfaction as I watch the world screw itself into the tribulation.

But, that all said, who are we to judge? Take all the crap we've suffered at the hands of humanity, multiply that a billion times, and we just start to scrape the surface of all Jesus and God have taken from us. And if Jesus can take it all in and still find some forgiveness towards us, well, I think we owe Him at least the effort of our trying to do the same. Sigh.

I've sometimes thought 'Jesus gave His life for humanity. Jesus got gyped'.

The question is, are we really going to join that crowd?

Well done! It is the first step to following Christ.

Luk 9:61 Another also said, "I will follow You, Lord, but first let me go and say good-bye to those at my house." Luk 9:62 But Jesus said to him, "No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God."

Compared to eternity, your life in this world is a very short span. If you give all your power for living to people of this world you are living falsely. It is not our material, temporary world that has the most reality, but the world of God's kingdom.

It is an amazing thing that when we put God first, and follow Him rather than people, we have the most joy and happiness in this world, too.

http://christianchat.com/miscellaneous/90645-i-hate-everything.html

there are a couple of others also, but I'm far too tired tonight to go back through the archives and pull them out.......enough to know that this kind of thing is getting fairly common here on CC..............maybe that's a good thing, maybe not............

I've seen that person's thread. It is not me. If I gave a rant as it's been put I'd get into detail and the writing this person has is not the same as mine. I don't know any other way to really 'prove' on that other than the fact that I can't.

If the mods can, I'd like this topic deleted anyway. It was a waste of time to do and I don't think anyone should waste their time any further. Thank you again for the time spent on those who did.