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BlueAngel

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to who? there are two of us with problems now.
 
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BlueAngel

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Every time my fiancee leaves somewhere, I have to stay home (hence the lonely) Every time my fiancee leaves, my dad won't let me go with him (hence the misunderstood, because my dad doesn't understand that I want to go too). Every time my fiancee leaves, we get into one argument or another (hence the hurt, because I hate arguing with him).
 
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When you say, "we get into one argument or another," do you mean you and your fiancee argue, or do you mean you and your dad argue?

Anyway, you are too young to constantly be with your fiancee. I suspect your dad is just trying to do what is best for you.
 
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Macie

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4:19
finally uploaded my photo...after an hour.
 

MrHonest

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Lynn! You seem like a smart girl. You know 17 is very young. You know tons of people on CC, smart people, don't feel they can be in a relationship because a good relationship involves controlling your emotions and being fair and responsible about everything. I see it like this: The relationship God asks of us is very similar to the relationship God expects of of us between man and woman. I know I know its only small arguments here and there, I know I know its none of my business.

So it takes a lot of patience to be in a relationship. The one with us and God is rocky because we want so many things in the world yet we are clambering to find a hold of Him. The ones between man and woman are very rocky too especially because both people want different things a lot of times, or sometimes. Just be patient. One thing that helps me a lot is knowing that an argument is when 1 person won't listen to another person, you can tell yourself or the other person that they are not being fair and if they really want whats best for both then fairness is required.

Cheer up Lynn.

Its 12:18 im going to find some food before going to work.
 
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8:45 pm
Finishing up a busy day. My brother drove down from Eugene, Oregon, to visit me.
 

MrHonest

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2am ish... Im going to bed just going to post a little
 
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BlueAngel

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3:52pm-
I think Randy thinks I'm upset with my fiancee... But I'm upset with a friend of mine who's ruining his life because he's being stupid. I'm only frustrated because I love him.
I'm worried about my fiancee, not upset with him. But he's coming home soon... I hope.
 
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BlueAngel

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1:14pm-
My fiancee just called me from a payphone in Dallas, Texas. I'm happy now.
 
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HebrewsTwelve22

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1:30am Im sad and I will pray.
...its 00:15 and I am about to go to bed. I will pray for MrHonest that the Lord will lift Him up and replace his cloak of heaviness with a garment of praise and take away his sadness and restore to him the Joy in His salvation. What ever is ailing my Brother I pray the Lord will deliver him from and pour upon Him the balm of healing and fill him with the Holy Spirit until his cup runneth over Amen God Bless you Brother
 

MrHonest

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...its 00:15 and I am about to go to bed. I will pray for MrHonest that the Lord will lift Him up and replace his cloak of heaviness with a garment of praise and take away his sadness and restore to him the Joy in His salvation. What ever is ailing my Brother I pray the Lord will deliver him from and pour upon Him the balm of healing and fill him with the Holy Spirit until his cup runneth over Amen God Bless you Brother
Thank you, I'm happy today. Thank You Lord. I give my sadness, worries, & questions to Him. I am still.