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GypsyRebel

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If you ever want to talk it out. Message me . I'll listen
 
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prettyinpink22

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I use to care way too much about what people thought of me.... I was worried about their point of view instead of my own or God's, but I grew up and realized that is hard work... not caring what others think or say about me is less stressful and more fun. right bestie!? @Richie lol
 
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Galahad

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WillieT what is that supposed to mean? Maybe I should have worded it differently. Negative things people say to u
WillieT is that way. He's working your brain. I don't agree with him on a lot of things. But I believe him to be sincere. Oh, and you responded quite well. In fact, your response doesn't seem to align with your question for this thread.
 
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Galahad

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WillieT is that way. He's working your brain. I don't agree with him on a lot of things. But I believe him to be sincere. Oh, and you responded quite well. In fact, your response doesn't seem to align with your question for this thread.
See, here's his response to your response. Notice the word "Actually." Now that he knows you can accept blatant reality, he becomes more informative. For CC, it's a good tactic. Oh, his response:

"Actually, it is very seldom that they are REALLY thinking of you when people put you down. They are almost always doing it for something that it satisfies in THEMSELVES. You really aren't their primary focus, THEY are."

My opinion of WillieT...I can't say. He would get hurt. :eek: Tears.
 
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Galahad

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Yes, unfortunately, and I'm dealing with that right now. A few months ago, my friend had said something completely untrue about me and it has affected my thoughts greatly. You're not alone.
"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9... :eek:

A friend speaking falsehood about you makes the words all the more piercing. Straighten it out as soon as possible. Pray. Pray. Pray.
 

Pemican

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Actually, it is very seldom that they are REALLY thinking of you when people put you down. They are almost always doing it for something that it satisfies in THEMSELVES. You really aren't their primary focus, THEY are.
I agree with Willie-T. I feel sorry for people who have to throw out mean comments at people around them. It is a reflection of the state of their own souls. They are self-righteous, arrogant, unforgiving, self-centered, and weak. They need to attack others to build up their own egos. They are a long way from God, the One who provides forgiveness for sin without cost to all who believe in Christ.
 
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WillieT is that way. He's working your brain. I don't agree with him on a lot of things. But I believe him to be sincere. Oh, and you responded quite well. In fact, your response doesn't seem to align with your question for this thread.
Yes, I seldom just give a flat answer to an OP's question. The reason?

I was in a profession/vocation for a few decades that taught me that the first thing a person brings up is seldom the REAL problem they want to address. Even here, it often takes several posts of dancing around the OP's opening post to get to what they REALLY want to talk about.
 
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This whole thread is centering on one of Jesus' pet peeves with us.... "Fear of Man."

He was never really speaking about us fearing that men might take a weapon to us. He was addressing the fact that we will often alter both our thinking and our actions based upon the fear we have that we may not be accepted by others if we don't.

And that will too often alter our beliefs about Him. Not a good thing, at all.
 

jb

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I think that not letting it get to you comes as you age...
Ditto...

I'm quite "thick skinned" now...lol

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me..." kind of state...
 
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Almost 50 no friends outside of work.
May I ask you whether you consider that a good thing, or a bad thing? Obviously, it is not just a "neutral" nothingness to you, or we wouldn't be typing in this thread.