*The*apostle*Paul never went to a church, maybe only to*martyr*people there, or lock them in prisons. Our will is very important, it is something that is given to us as an ability to make decisions, as in believing in God, or Jesus Christ. God never tampers with our will. He lets us do what we want, if we want to, knowing there are consequences to pay. Having the holy spirit as in accepting Jesus into our life, he convicts us, of things, but the final decision is up to us. Be*careful*who you choose as your mate, it's a life time of blessings, or curses, as the sins of the parents are handed down, and not only that, negative thinking, will bring*disasters*to your life through your wife, or husband. It's like a driver, and your the passenger. The marriage trip might be one of a constant road to hell.