Tintin is right and I'm not going to be as nice about it. Seriously, you live in the same house, right? Do you two talk in person? Why do you keep flirting with each other on CC? You're there to do it in person, and it is nauseating for the rest of us to read. And while we wish you all the happiness in the world, we really don't care about the day to day details and expressions of it. Also it is nothing short of annoying to find that one of you has resurrected a bunch of tourist's old threads and filled up the front page of CC singles with them, please stop. It's hard enough to get good threads going with a good discussion as it is, bumping them off the first page doesn't help.
While I wish you well and hope things work out and you continue to enjoy each other as a blessing from God, you haven't known each other long enough to get out of the infatuation phase of a relationship. I won't be crediting your relationship as an awesome work of God until it has lasted for a few years, until you've gotten beyond the initial emotion of oh wow someone there so I don't feel so lonely. So far what I've seen (and that's only been the public CC stuff so there may be a whole lot more deeper stuff between you two in private) has been extremely fast and emotionally driven. And most of your relational advice to others has been if you want a relationship go for it, regardless of the issues in a person's life. I must honestly say that I do not see your relationship as a model for others, nor see the evidence of much wisdom used in pursuing it. The continued expression of your relationship online looks like emotional exhibitionism, and even making allowance for differences in personalities (and considering the behavior of other CC couples) you guys are extreme past the limits of decency. No one is saying you can never mention each other, but you do need to rein it in some.
While I wish you well and hope things work out and you continue to enjoy each other as a blessing from God, you haven't known each other long enough to get out of the infatuation phase of a relationship. I won't be crediting your relationship as an awesome work of God until it has lasted for a few years, until you've gotten beyond the initial emotion of oh wow someone there so I don't feel so lonely. So far what I've seen (and that's only been the public CC stuff so there may be a whole lot more deeper stuff between you two in private) has been extremely fast and emotionally driven. And most of your relational advice to others has been if you want a relationship go for it, regardless of the issues in a person's life. I must honestly say that I do not see your relationship as a model for others, nor see the evidence of much wisdom used in pursuing it. The continued expression of your relationship online looks like emotional exhibitionism, and even making allowance for differences in personalities (and considering the behavior of other CC couples) you guys are extreme past the limits of decency. No one is saying you can never mention each other, but you do need to rein it in some.
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