What's are the "don'ts" of a first date?

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ArtsieSteph

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One thing I will say, and in a sense this is post first date. Please don’t assume that you’re automatically this person’s best friend/first priority.

I had a gent that, after not talking for like 2 years, asking for me to let him visit me from out of state. He then proceeded to attempt video chatting me, when we hadn’t had maybe more than 10 civil words.

The point is: if you’re desperate don’t be looking for a relationship. Because at that you may not really care who takes the position, and that isn’t a good way to start.
 

Dino246

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If I'm 6'4, and she's 5'5, does that mean we're both 10's?
 
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IFOLLOWHIM

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Lol you folks!
What about ....RECALL!
I dated a man for two months @ the beginning of '19, suddenly we just stopped seeing one another!
Today out of the blue he calls and wants to know why.......and did I want to come over tonight and watch Hallmark Christmas movies..........uuuuuuum NO!
 

melita916

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Lol you folks!
What about ....RECALL!
I dated a man for two months @ the beginning of '19, suddenly we just stopped seeing one another!
Today out of the blue he calls and wants to know why.......and did I want to come over tonight and watch Hallmark Christmas movies..........uuuuuuum NO!
but what if he has pizza???? lol
 
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IFOLLOWHIM

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Ain't enough! 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
I'm beginning to think some of us are to just walk solo........except for Jesus!
 

cinder

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Ain't enough! 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
I'm beginning to think some of us are to just walk solo........except for Jesus!
And the best part about walking solo, you don't have to share any of the yummy food.
 
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MegMarch

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Lol you folks!
What about ....RECALL!
I dated a man for two months @ the beginning of '19, suddenly we just stopped seeing one another!
Today out of the blue he calls and wants to know why.......and did I want to come over tonight and watch Hallmark Christmas movies..........uuuuuuum NO!
You had me at Hallmark Christmas movies.