I dont think there is a mathematical formula for it if thats what you after.
There is a proverb that says about an odious woman when she is married Proverbs 30:23
I often wondered what that meant.
But then in NT Paul says for single women its better to stay single, the one who marries a virgin does well but the one who leaves the virgin as a virgin does even better, cos shes is happier.
Ive always thought if a man really loved a woman he wouldnt even want to defile her, he would let her stay pure.
This is a radical thought when many men think for a woman they have to get her laid and then bound by marriage she will be happy. No it doesnt work that way. If she already has the fullness of joy by the holy spirit, you are only trying to steal that joy if you try to possess it just for yourself.
It is like flowers, that put on a beautful display every season but if you go and pick them and try to restrict them they will be unhappy sometimes its best to leave them to do their own thing in the envrionemnt where they grow best.
There is a proverb that says about an odious woman when she is married Proverbs 30:23
I often wondered what that meant.
But then in NT Paul says for single women its better to stay single, the one who marries a virgin does well but the one who leaves the virgin as a virgin does even better, cos shes is happier.
Ive always thought if a man really loved a woman he wouldnt even want to defile her, he would let her stay pure.
This is a radical thought when many men think for a woman they have to get her laid and then bound by marriage she will be happy. No it doesnt work that way. If she already has the fullness of joy by the holy spirit, you are only trying to steal that joy if you try to possess it just for yourself.
It is like flowers, that put on a beautful display every season but if you go and pick them and try to restrict them they will be unhappy sometimes its best to leave them to do their own thing in the envrionemnt where they grow best.