Virgin single 24

Hey there I'm a virgin man from New York looking for a lovely virgin woman maybe I'll find her lol. Yeah right

Maybe, maybe not. Is virginity one of your standards when considering a prospective mate? Would you rather consider a virgin who is selfish and inconsiderate or a woman, not a virgin, who is generous and considerate? Regardless, glad to have you onboard with us. Welcome to CC.

I mean everyone is different with different personalities being a virgin was always my standard it's fine if she did oral once or twice but being a virgin was always my dream to have that connection but unfortunately the dream is dieing

The thing is, the older you become the amount of prospective women who are still virgins will dwindle. Besides being a virgin what are the other criteria you have set when in consideration of a future spouse? I would not consider a woman who participated in oral sex chaste even though she is technically physically still a virgin.

Well I dont mind if she did oral once or twice because I have gotten oral however it was something I didnt want but I still want to be fair. Besides that everything a woman should be cool fun respectful understanding. etc. There are other things I dont like tatts piercings bad attitudes dressing very revealing. However I always make exceptions cuz I dont have good luck you cant get everything

Based on this post I would not consider you to be a virgin even in a technical sense.

What do you mean?

Having oral sex does not a virgin make. You are deluding yourself.

What do you mean?

I didnt want the oral

Yet you participated in that activity. It's time that you start taking responsibility for your actions and stop playing role of the victim.

Ur words a very hurtful I did not want the oral period n did not like it. I am a victim. I do take responsibility for being weak but even so I am a virgin I Didnt go around getting oral from the whole world to then claim to be virgin. That's different. I have never had sex n if you read what I wrote I said I wouldnt mind if she did oral once or twice even tho our situations are different I'm still tryna be fair

Regardless of whether you enjoyed it or not you made the choice to participate.

My counsel is to stop harping about how you are a virgin as it makes you sound disingenuous at best and dishonest at worse. You might consider placing the emphasis on any good qualities you believe you have and forget about touting how you are a virgin.

You are no angel in regards to sexual purity that's for sure. I believe that most men and women your age and above aren't either so you're not alone in this regards.

I'm not trying to hurt your feelings but trying to help you and to do that I have to offer an honest assessment of where I believe that you currently stand in the endeavor of attracting a mate suitable for marriage.