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CharliRenee

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Often when I start thinking of my loves, I start fretting, especially with regards to my Mama. I would say that since I was in my early 20's, I started honing in on the fact that someday she won't be here. I know this pain is coming. I do this kind of anticipation of deep loss with my closest friends too. Not just will I lose them to death some day, but will we just stop the connection that means so much, will friction cause our amazing and secure bond to change or perhaps even cause it to cease to be…

Sure that can happen and has happened, heavy sigh…


My Lord, though, has really been helping me lately, though, penetrating my recalcitrant tendencies to dwell in the state of fear in facing life's potential, even possible inevitable, outcomes. The journey of life well lived comes with great loss.

He who is given much, is also expected much.

I have a handful of close friends who are invested in me, and I in them. We touch base almost daily. I have a couple that mean the world to me but we barely cross paths anymore. My point is this…

A relationship with others is founded on mercy, lots of it, and tender loving care, the willingness to reach out and to be available when others do the reaching. He gives so much with others, but we can see this truth most clearly with treasured daily encounters with our Lord.

When we seek Him out, go to Him, eager for the greatest connection of all, He comes to the table, eager to reveal His mercy and presence. He teaches us to love, outside of self, and outside of fear. He gives so much of Himself, everything good is given directly from Heavenly places. What really makes the intimate relationship with Him greater than any other...well lots of things. But one that stands out more right now is this….

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38‭-‬39 ESV

No matter what, He and the heavenly divine and sacred communion with Him are eternal. He isn't going anywhere. We can lean in and on with such peace and assurance. So you see, we can actively love more fully, Him and others, knowing He will get us through, one on one, no matter the outcomes.
 

shittim

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I have spoken with and/or heard from over 30 who have been contacted in some way by those who have gone before us into eternity.
Our best is ahead of us.
"O death, where is thy sting?"
Thank you Jesus
blessings
 

tourist

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Often when I start thinking of my loves, I start fretting, especially with regards to my Mama. I would say that since I was in my early 20's, I started honing in on the fact that someday she won't be here. I know this pain is coming. I do this kind of anticipation of deep loss with my closest friends too. Not just will I lose them to death some day, but will we just stop the connection that means so much, will friction cause our amazing and secure bond to change or perhaps even cause it to cease to be…

Sure that can happen and has happened, heavy sigh…


My Lord, though, has really been helping me lately, though, penetrating my recalcitrant tendencies to dwell in the state of fear in facing life's potential, even possible inevitable, outcomes. The journey of life well lived comes with great loss.

He who is given much, is also expected much.

I have a handful of close friends who are invested in me, and I in them. We touch base almost daily. I have a couple that mean the world to me but we barely cross paths anymore. My point is this…

A relationship with others is founded on mercy, lots of it, and tender loving care, the willingness to reach out and to be available when others do the reaching. He gives so much with others, but we can see this truth most clearly with treasured daily encounters with our Lord.

When we seek Him out, go to Him, eager for the greatest connection of all, He comes to the table, eager to reveal His mercy and presence. He teaches us to love, outside of self, and outside of fear. He gives so much of Himself, everything good is given directly from Heavenly places. What really makes the intimate relationship with Him greater than any other...well lots of things. But one that stands out more right now is this….

For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38‭-‬39 ESV

No matter what, He and the heavenly divine and sacred communion with Him are eternal. He isn't going anywhere. We can lean in and on with such peace and assurance. So you see, we can actively love more fully, Him and others, knowing He will get us through, one on one, no matter the outcomes.
Sadly, there will come a time when your Mama won't be around anymore.

I lost my dad in 2008, died a week before his 77th birthday. It was like the torch was passed to me and it was up to me to carry on without him. Very lonely feeling. Mom died last year a week after her 85th birthday. This was not as bad as Dad's passing as she was up in years, had a very good life and her mind remained sharp. A few months later I lost my younger brother who a few weeks before turned 56. Without going into detail, his death was very tragic and totally unexpected. I think about him everyday. It was a needless loss. The death that affected me most was watching my late second wife die after years of suffering from psoriatic arthritis and other serious medical issues. I took comfort in knowing that she was in a much better place and would not suffer anymore.

One day we will all be gone and the void will hurt the ones that we love deeply who were left behind. I find the verse you provided from Romans to be comforting. We all are in need of comfort, support, and understanding. It does help to remember that we have the blessed assured hope from God that one day He will make things right.

Believe me, it will be a long time coming. Until then the best that we can do is to continue to fight the good fight as long as it is Today and keep our eyes on the prize.
 

SoulWeaver

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Hebrews 2:15 And deliver them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage...
Amen