I'm a new member, looking for friends I'm an older widow living in Wa state.

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MatthewWestfieldUK

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Very interesting, tell us more. How are you a bad friend? What requirement do you fail at? Make a testimony.
Im not sure that i am comfortable ssy too much. But I think that I struggle to empathise at times. Become numb and cold.
 

sandylea

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Mkay semiolder widow. Tell us more. Do a testimony or a bibleverse. I prefer verses. I have neglected reading the bible for many days, till today. Not much going on in the world. But can do some widowstuff also. But not a widower, so I am probably the wrong person for that. Do a verse, so we get to know you spiritually, since you are peaceful.
Well , ok. "You will keep in perfect him whose mind is steadfast because he trusts in You." Ps 26:3
 

sandylea

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I came to this site as a widower years ago. There are many fine Christian members here to consider becoming friends with. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
thank you!
 
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Im not sure that i am comfortable ssy too much. But I think that I struggle to empathise at times. Become numb and cold.
You seem to have issues, unburden for your own sake, you cannot varry this cross alone. And your cross is invicible to us. Manifest it to ua please so we can help in the proper forum, this is not the forum, this is the introduction, you cannot jack it and make it about you. If you have grief, make a testimony. And stress out first, you seem stressed out. Drop that. Take 10, then tell us and ask for guidence or tell it on the mountain. Do not be afraid of what we do not even know what is. If so, we cannot help you. Have you done some wrong? That you could need help solving? Yes or no, otherwise you must find it for yourself. We all make mistakes, no biggy if you reach out and fix it before it is too late. Would be sad if people gave you up while you struggle to reach out. I wish you the best again. Hope it works out for you. I will include you in my prayer when I start praying. Calm down. The truth will set you free, as the good book says. Just be calm. Make a testimony, and pray, God will never judge, he is understanding and caring for all, you included. Never forget that. All have different paths, none is wrong, if it lead you to the lord.. I hope to fistfive you there one day. Hate to hear your struggles now.
 

sandylea

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sandylea

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Hello and welcome to our family here at Christian Chat. We are glad to have you join us and hope you find many friends and good fellowship with us, Sandylea. :)
Thank you, isny!
 

MatthewWestfieldUK

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You seem to have issues, unburden for your own sake, you cannot varry this cross alone. And your cross is invicible to us. Manifest it to ua please so we can help in the proper forum, this is not the forum, this is the introduction, you cannot jack it and make it about you. If you have grief, make a testimony. And stress out first, you seem stressed out. Drop that. Take 10, then tell us and ask for guidence or tell it on the mountain. Do not be afraid of what we do not even know what is. If so, we cannot help you. Have you done some wrong? That you could need help solving? Yes or no, otherwise you must find it for yourself. We all make mistakes, no biggy if you reach out and fix it before it is too late. Would be sad if people gave you up while you struggle to reach out. I wish you the best again. Hope it works out for you. I will include you in my prayer when I start praying. Calm down. The truth will set you free, as the good book says. Just be calm. Make a testimony, and pray, God will never judge, he is understanding and caring for all, you included. Never forget that. All have different paths, none is wrong, if it lead you to the lord.. I hope to fistfive you there one day. Hate to hear your struggles now.
I will think on this
 
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Thank you, and move it to another place, this was a thread of someone else. Se we should
mot derail it,. Look into your heart, you will find it, you know you, you know all people you ever loved, not complicated if you got some genuine from others. Sometimes iit is just the ending that is hard, or cutting people out of your life, no biggy. In the end we stand bt truth before God. All we endure before that is just a test. We just endure it all, no option. If that helps you somewhat. And really, move your issue to another thread, this is hers, not yours, violates terms if we contiue . Wish you well again, I really hope you find your heaven, love is precious. Cherish and keep it. Make a family and babies if you can. We need more soldiers.
 

sandylea

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Welcome. Hope you will have a blast here. Not very much description of yourself, perhaps you should do a testimonythread, or make a thread about something that you are interested in. So we get to know you somewhat. Or add some more info here. You are the first old widow I have met. Now tell us more, if you like.
 
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Well , ok. "You will keep in perfect him whose mind is steadfast because he trusts in You." Ps 26:3
Thank you, I will read it in context.
Well , ok. "You will keep in perfect him whose mind is steadfast because he trusts in You." Ps 26:3
True psalm, I agree with it. Do you struggle with it?
 

sandylea

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Thank you, I will read it in context.

True psalm, I agree with it. Do you struggle with it?
Of course, especially in a new situation that I've never had to trust before. In situations that He's answered me before I have a history with Him of answers that He has given and can remember and encourage myself. In a new situation it's like pioneer territory.
 
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Of course, especially in a new situation that I've never had to trust before. In situations that He's answered me before I have a history with Him of answers that He has given and can remember and encourage myself. In a new situation it's like pioneer territory.
OK, I made a thread about some concrete verses if you want to engage, it is in the bible discussion shortly if there are mods online now.
 

monarchs

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I'm a new member, an older widow looking for some new friends
Hi!
I am recently a new member as well. I live in Ohio with my husband. I grew up Catholic. I had some life experiences that made me pull away from God, but lately he has made himself known again to me. I have come across the verse that talks about how God has given us "gifts" through the Holy Spirit. I was reading a religious book and it was brought to my attention in the book, then I recently started reading the bible( I always wanted to read it cover to cover) and the same verse was there again talking about "my gifts. "It has happened several times and I feel I need to tell people about this. I hope this doesn't sound weird, It is all new to me and I want to tell someone. By the way welcome to CC.