Sexual Temptation (TMI warning)
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A drunk 16-year-old boy filmed himself assaulting an intoxicated 16-year-old girl
from behind in a darkened basement gym at a pajama-themed party in New Jersey.
The girl’s head, hanging down, repeatedly hit the wall. Prosecutors said the boy later
sent the video to seven of his friends, texting them, “[w]hen your first time having sex was rape."
Monmouth County prosecutors in 2017 sought to charge the boy as an adult with first-degree
aggravated sexual assault, among other charges, saying that he “engaged in vaginal intercourse”
with the girl when she was “visibly intoxicated, physically helpless and unable to provide consent.”
His behavior, prosecutors said, was “sophisticated and predatory,”
warranting a waiver of the juvenile to adult court.
But a New Jersey family court judge last July denied the prosecutors’
motion to try the boy as an adult — on the grounds that he was an
Eagle Scout who came “from a good family” and who could get into
a “good college” because of his excellent grades.
Judge James Troiano also suggested that the boy’s alleged actions didn’t fit “the traditional case of rape”
— which, according to him, occurs when “two or more men” “clearly manhandle” a victim at gunpoint.
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A drunk 16-year-old boy filmed himself assaulting an intoxicated 16-year-old girl
from behind in a darkened basement gym at a pajama-themed party in New Jersey.
The girl’s head, hanging down, repeatedly hit the wall. Prosecutors said the boy later
sent the video to seven of his friends, texting them, “[w]hen your first time having sex was rape."
Monmouth County prosecutors in 2017 sought to charge the boy as an adult with first-degree
aggravated sexual assault, among other charges, saying that he “engaged in vaginal intercourse”
with the girl when she was “visibly intoxicated, physically helpless and unable to provide consent.”
His behavior, prosecutors said, was “sophisticated and predatory,”
warranting a waiver of the juvenile to adult court.
But a New Jersey family court judge last July denied the prosecutors’
motion to try the boy as an adult — on the grounds that he was an
Eagle Scout who came “from a good family” and who could get into
a “good college” because of his excellent grades.
Judge James Troiano also suggested that the boy’s alleged actions didn’t fit “the traditional case of rape”
— which, according to him, occurs when “two or more men” “clearly manhandle” a victim at gunpoint.
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So you can draw upon your vast understanding of how the whole world works with your 13 years of experience in life? So much so that you know the whole sum of your future?
Totally and completely ridiculous...and you know that too.
Your body has a lot of maturing yet to do. You haven't even started with the adult clothes... you are still in awkward teenage mode surrounded by other geeky teenagers who will do ANYTHING to draw attention away from themselves by poking fun at anyone and everyone else. Everyone is gangly and disproportionate at your age... making a final determination at this point is proof your cognitive skills need work.
You haven't even hit High School or college yet.
Your cognitive abilities have just barely achieved the first level of function with 4 more levels to go.
But I can say with all complete confidence that the attitude you display is the direct cause of the attitude you will receive from others.
That prettiest girl in school? Ok when all she can converse about is what clothes to wear and how to apply makeup and exactly what exercise routines work best....uggghhhh....nobody will care. All she is then is something akin to furniture...she is no longer a person with character...she will be someone's accessory that eventually gets traded in for something new and fresh.
You don't want that treatment....ever. Be glad you aren't her. Be very grateful. And as long as you are doing the customary expected hygiene regimen of showering and brushing your teeth on a daily basis... you ain't ugly.
Known a woman whose face and body was covered in strawberry. (Red and purple splotches)
Her appearance was not even comfortable...but she was confident and generous and pleasant to talk to. And if Marty hadn't started dating her I would have. (As it was he married her) I got a different woman for my wife.
The whole story is to explain to you that appearance only gets a guys attention. (One that you might want to date) but your personality is what keeps his attention. And if it doesn't...then you don't want him in your life.
The "easy" girls in school never faired well... you don't have to go down that path. There's lots of attention available for you for other things if you will avail yourself of them. And if you need help doing so there is a whole world of adults and friends who will be willing to help. But your request must be made clear.... grunting or vague hints aren't going to cut it. Neither is screaming at them about how they just don't understand going to work either. Gotta put on the big girl panties and act like an adult when asking for real help with this stuff.
And I think that you will be pleasantly surprised with the results of asking appropriately for what you want.
Totally and completely ridiculous...and you know that too.
Your body has a lot of maturing yet to do. You haven't even started with the adult clothes... you are still in awkward teenage mode surrounded by other geeky teenagers who will do ANYTHING to draw attention away from themselves by poking fun at anyone and everyone else. Everyone is gangly and disproportionate at your age... making a final determination at this point is proof your cognitive skills need work.
You haven't even hit High School or college yet.
Your cognitive abilities have just barely achieved the first level of function with 4 more levels to go.
But I can say with all complete confidence that the attitude you display is the direct cause of the attitude you will receive from others.
That prettiest girl in school? Ok when all she can converse about is what clothes to wear and how to apply makeup and exactly what exercise routines work best....uggghhhh....nobody will care. All she is then is something akin to furniture...she is no longer a person with character...she will be someone's accessory that eventually gets traded in for something new and fresh.
You don't want that treatment....ever. Be glad you aren't her. Be very grateful. And as long as you are doing the customary expected hygiene regimen of showering and brushing your teeth on a daily basis... you ain't ugly.
Known a woman whose face and body was covered in strawberry. (Red and purple splotches)
Her appearance was not even comfortable...but she was confident and generous and pleasant to talk to. And if Marty hadn't started dating her I would have. (As it was he married her) I got a different woman for my wife.
The whole story is to explain to you that appearance only gets a guys attention. (One that you might want to date) but your personality is what keeps his attention. And if it doesn't...then you don't want him in your life.
The "easy" girls in school never faired well... you don't have to go down that path. There's lots of attention available for you for other things if you will avail yourself of them. And if you need help doing so there is a whole world of adults and friends who will be willing to help. But your request must be made clear.... grunting or vague hints aren't going to cut it. Neither is screaming at them about how they just don't understand going to work either. Gotta put on the big girl panties and act like an adult when asking for real help with this stuff.
And I think that you will be pleasantly surprised with the results of asking appropriately for what you want.
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The boy is only taking advantage of you because you have low self-esteem (thoughts of being ugly and worthless) and thinks you are easy. I am serious. This boy you like is a complete loser. He is not going to marry you. He only has one thing in mind, and that's not studies. When he gets to high school, he is going to sleep around with a lot of other girls. He will likely be a loser after he graduates from high school, if he even makes it that far.
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It did not sound like a full on rape but it was certainly an attempted rape since no consent was asked, and all that is beside the point given the girl's age: it was attempted rape even of consent had been asked and given. Not only that, his parents were right there in the house. He is careless and reckless and driven to do wild things to get the thrills and gratification he seeks.
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