It would help if you went through 1 Thes. 4:13-18 and show us exactly what you see and why you see it!
Maybe we can clear up some things!
Good Morning and Blessing upon you from our Lord Jesus Christ - Amen
For our mutual benefit i have placed A, B, C, D so we can see together here exactly what is said without adding or taking away.
A.) Brothers, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you will not grieve like the rest, who are without hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, we also believe
that
God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in Him.
B.) By the word of the Lord, we declare to you that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who have fallen asleep.
C.) For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a loud command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God, and the dead in Christ will be the first to rise.
D.) After that, we who are alive and remain will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will always be with the Lord.
A.) We who are alive have hope for our loved ones in Christ who have died. They are with Christ now and God will bring their spirits/souls with Christ for the Second Coming
Can you see this? If you do we can move unto B