Exactly, that's what I thought. In Marriage vows couples say "till death do us apart". Those are very strong words. I'm not even married yet and I cannot believe how they say, "lets divorce" so easily.
All I know is a few years ago I stumbled upon my husbands porn problem and it about tore the life from me.
I reacted as most women react, which only caused more division and strife between us.
I had enough "advice" telling me to just leave him over this.
But I knew Holy Spirit was telling me "NO!"
I won't go into all the details here, but it definitely required dying to myself (to my own flesh) and yielding to Holy Spirit's leading.
One thing I CLEARLY remember Holy Spirit telling me was that I could yell and scream all I wanted about the situation but all it would do is close him (husband) up more. That He (Holy Spirit) is the only One that can reach the deepest, most private, inner being of a man's heart and touch/change it.
It wasn't easy, in fact, at times it, well I can't even describe how heart wrenching it was at times.................
What I can say though is that it has been a few years now, and God has restored our marriage.
I know that there are still things that show up here and there (tv, out in public) that catch his attention, but I also see how he quickly redirects his attention or quietly begins to pray.
God is faithful!