Is it okay to kiss your boyfriend before merriegd?

Hello, I would like to share this quote.

Genuine love is a precious attribute of heavenly origin, which increases in fragrance in proportion as it is dispensed to others. Christ’s love is deep and earnest, flowing like an irrepressible stream to all who will accept it. There is no selfishness in His love. In this heaven-born love is an abiding principle in the heart, it will make itself known, not only to those we hold most dear in sacred relationship, but to all with whom we come in contact. It will lead us to bestow little acts of attention, to make concessions, to perform deeds of kindness, to speak tender, true, encouraging words. It will lead us to sympathize with those whose hearts hunger for sympathy.

We have all fallen into that trap of holding hands and kissing. But has it lead us on path to love God more of has it done the opposite?

Coughs "totally opposite"

Greet each other with a HOLY kiss.
They do this in Brazil. It's not a kiss on the lips. It's a kiss-kiss-kiss alternating on the cheeks.

Let me ask you this. How many girlfriends are you okay with your future husband kissing?

I am 34. I have never had sex. I have never kissed a girl. I intend for my first kiss to be my bride on my wedding day.

I read somewhere that a Holy kiss was on the forehead and both cheats. Father Son Holy Spirit

Interesting. That would make sense. We don't have a Biblical record of this, but we know the early church did things purposefully and symbolically, like meeting on the first day of the week. It wouldn't surprise me.

And now that you mention it, it makes me a bit curious where the triple cheek greeting of Brazil comes from.

3 second rule on the kiss Katheran.. hehe After that you will find the flesh wants more then a kiss!! I know about the Holy Kisses stuff,but I never greet any of the saints that way,and here is why!!( Luke 22:48) I think of this every time! Fist bump or a nod of my head,no hugging either! lol It is just my way.

I have a problem of girls out of nowhere hugging me. So be it.

To be completely honest, that is 100% up to you. If you don’t feel comfortable kissing your boyfriend, you definitely should have those boundaries, and make those certain boundaries known. That is just my opinion

Were Adam and Eve guilty of remaining unclothed in God's most holy presence?

No

I had too many girlfriends to kiss them all, and I did not want them to fight.

Sister Katheren I would say this as if you were my daughter, Kiss him on the cheek never on the mouth. Reason? Because a kiss on the mouth tends to lead to other things,at least on his mind!! I know!!! Personally, I know the Bible says greet one another with a Holy Kiss, but I do not even hug!!! Unless I know the lady and know she is single. Guys get a fist bump at best. LOL

Well, I'm not cheap.
I expect a girl to buy me dinner first.

A kiss is a beautiful expression of love. Nothing wrong or sinful with kissing the person you love!

One thing to consider... What if you end up not marrying the person you're dating? It is FAR better to save expressions like that for marriage. How many other people would you want your future spouse to have kissed before you do?

A holy kiss is on the forehead and each cheek, father, son and Holy Spirit.

I heard a good joke today, don't get into an arguemtn with stupid people, they have the home court advantage. lol

Hi, not a teen but just wanted to say, in case you were not aware, that kissing transfers testosterone from the male to the female, so the males body is telling her body sex is on the cards. Wether you know it or not consciously, your body is designed to look for these alerts as a spouse, and prepare itself for sex... ie increasing desire for sex. So you make yourself more vulnerable to temptation, regardless of your intentions, if you engage in romantic kissing.

Best to keep it to a peck on the cheek if anything really, as its hard enough battling hormones as a teen as it is!

Hope that helps.

Stick to holding hands only much safer..
wish i had done that......

I had dozens of girlfriends, kissed them and it never led to sex.