it’s a struggle to go from what our opinions are to what Gods opinions are but that’s the way to understand
When a person marries they seem making a sacred vow before God to endure with the person . When you get married God sees the two as one so it’s like a sinner , divorcing a sinner , because they sinned.
but they already made a vow to God to love honor and cherish each other in the good times and bad times. When God recognizes a marriage ot should be the very last resort for anyone to break his union and he says it’s valid when one commits fornications or adultery
I think we should be careful before we marry and make sure we understand the person is going to not be perfect but we’re making an oath to persevere with them in love and the marriage oath is one ordained of God and sealed by God in his sight
“But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
Mark 10:6-9 KJV
we should consider alot of things before we marry and marriage needs mercy between the two people or it is without hope
Agreed. Elevating opinion above Scripture is dangerous because "God's ways are not our ways." The Bible warns against being "more righteous" than God... not that this is actually possible but sometimes people seem to think it is. They accuse God of being unjust or even outright evil.
The one valid reason for divorce in the Scripture is because of fornication, but the Scriptures also say that remarriage in this case is not permitted.
Mat_19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
1Co_7:27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
^ This is hard to take, humanly speaking. So forgiveness comes into play here as well. Many couples work through infidelity and repair their marriages. This is probably a better thing - if possible - than divorce.
As a practical measure, I would also say that physical separation in cases of spousal abuse might be needed. I'm not going to give any definitive input on whether divorce is morally acceptable in such cases. Again, forgiveness comes into play, and divorce means no remarriage Scripturally. It's better to repair a broken marriage than to scrap it entirely. But sometimes it must be scrapped if one spouse is unwilling to try to rebuild it.
The Scriptures say what they say, and what they say about divorce is hard for fleshly humans to receive. I'm not condemning anyone who has divorced and remarried. Stay with your current spouse and love them "until death do you part." But I'm not interested in hearing your opinions about these very clear Scriptures. Marry wisely, because Biblically that ONE person is the one you are stuck with and there shouldn't be any do-overs. Exception, bereavement.