It shall even be as when a hungry man dreams,
And look—he eats;
But he awakes, and his soul is still empty;
Or as when a thirsty man dreams,
And look—he drinks;
But he awakes, and indeed
he is faint,
And his soul still craves:
I once heard a preacher say that online church is akin to dreaming that you are eating and drinking, and that it will not actually fill or satisfy spiritual hunger. Personally, I think the message was garbage, and the scriptures were
grossly misapplied to manipulate people... buy hey, I could be wrong.
I don't think that online-services should be an end to themselves though... ideally, there would be a church good enough that you actually want to go to, but I understand we don't live in an ideal world. I was thinking last week about how finding a good church is like looking in a "Where's Waldo" where there are a bunch of people dressed like Waldo.
and later on in the week, I heard a commercial on a Christian radio station, saying "The author of the Where's Waldo books assures his readers that you will always be able to find Waldo- and like the author, Jesus always assures us that if we look we will always be able to find him".
God is a rewarder of those who
diligently seek him. And I think that one persons level of due diligence might be higher than others at any given time. There are people that go to church for singing and social stimulation and could care less about spiritual things- I don't really think church attendance is necessarily an indicator of spiritual health.
But like I was saying before, IDEALLY, you will be able to get into a situation where you can have maximum participation. It's the difference between watching someone play your favorite sport, and playing your favorite sport. Or for the ladies, perhaps- watching a romance flick, versus being in a romantic relationship. Does having a marital relationship only over the phone, or through a computer screen sound appealing? Probably not.... BUT at the same time, I guess it's far better than being married and completely isolated from your spouse- but even then, the ideal is that you and your spouse are united.
There's a fair amount of churches that say you need to be there every day the church doors are open, but the reality is that if their church was actually worth going to 2 or 3 times a week- you would want to go (if you really are diligently seeking the lord). So, if anybody tries to assess you in this matter... i'd ignore them.