Starting to date after a bad marriage

Well it seems I have plenty of men whom seem to be interested in me. But it has been almost 13 yr.s since I have gone on a first date. My main thing is to give God control of the decisions. Many as I walk about cleaning all day I can see how they react and shows alot on their character and it many times is not Godly character. I will not settle for anyone who does not put God first and understands Godly morals. I maybe single for quite awhile. But am not rushing into any crazy relationship. I am not really looking for anything but friendship atm. Oh and they have to like fishing, just saying,lol!

Well I'd say you've come to the right place. This is more a discussion forum for single Christians (and these days we have a few formerly single people who came here when single and never left as well as visitors from other CC forums) to talk about all those things that affect life as a single that people who aren't single don't get or just those things we want to talk about, but don't have anyone living with us to talk about them with. We're pretty laid back and chill around here for the most part; though we do get the usual dating topics and complaints from time to time.

All that to say welcome, we're glad you found us and no one here is going to try to push you back into the dating pool before you're ready (some of us just don't bother so we won't have much advice about starting to date again, but we've got lots of experience in living as a single person and how to do that).

Good for you(I know that’s an overused saying). Yes, I can tell you from experience that being unevenly yoked brings about….well disaster. Have fun, and make sure he opens the door for you. 👍🏻

I dont think everyone can ever know everything!
what kind of fishing do you do...river, sea, off a wharf, boat or surfcasting?

I am very partial to seafood especially crayfish, but I keep my feet firmly in the land so the only seafood I gather would be cockles and seaweed from the beach.

My mum used to say I ought to marry a crayfish man, but it hasnt turned out that way. (way to Lanolins heart, feed her crayfish. hint hint) though I enjoy being single and just save my pennies to buy a crayfish meal every now and again.

I dont really think about dating that much, I just go out with friends. Its easier. AM sorry to hear about bad marriages. A lot of single people at church are recovering from bad marriages. and then theres those whove never been married, like me. From the friends Ive made, nobody has ever pressured me to go dating.

it tends to be 'clueless' workmates that think just cos Im single, I'm theirs for the taking. This used to be a big hassle for me, till I just learned to, well not totally ignore the pleas, but just kindly let them know Im not interested. Then they can just talk to me like a well, NORMAL person instrad of trying to chat me up lol

I actually used to be a mod years back on Christian Chat. Will not say where or when. I know all about forums etc. Not much has changed. Except they want to charge you for everything on most of these. One thing have learned also too be more understanding and understand I don't know everything and never will. That and to see others through God's eyes . Keeps me quiet alot

*Lynx peers over the edge of his perch and looks narrowly at the thin tree...

Was I here back then? If I was... Uh... Don't believe anything you think you remember about me. Yeah, that was... Um... Someone else under a similar nick, yeah.

AS long as Fishing involved going to the Fish and Chip shop and ordering . then i love Fishing lol

When I do nothing I get dangerous , as my mind goes wandering and starts planning .
I need to keep busy and focussed


. If I have spare time I listen to expositions of the bible books

I never listen to topical sermons , just not my thing

So sitting patiently is not my thing
Pray for God to give me patience , but tell him to hurry up lol

im sure christian chat rooms are different though
this is where girls practise their evangelising skills on men

is it not?