Midnight Confessions

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Lanolin

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I dont see any
the only thing I see is that midnight confession is boring

well thats a boring confession! :rolleyes::ROFL:
 

Lanolin

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oh hold on

@Robertt said woman and girls rule his world

thats a confession? What could this mean? Don't women and girls ALREADY rule anyway?
 
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ChristianTonyB

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@Robertt may be a groundsman at a Women's hospital or sumpin like that?
Not sure if they have harems in Bahrain, but maybe he has a job in security at one of those. I think a male has to have a squeaky voice to get a job in them, though. 😬
 

Robertt

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Sorry, was just trying to lighten things up.

Do you mind me asking why you think your life is being ruled by women and girls?
because i love them... and that which you love the most rules you...
we do things to please them . get their attention. impress them. make them smile

So yes , i have as hole in my heart and it can only be filled by the opposite gender.
 
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ChristianTonyB

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because i love them... and that which you love the most rules you...
we do things to please them . get their attention. impress them. make them smile

So yes , i have as hole in my heart and it can only be filled by the opposite gender.
Yes, that's difficult for anyone, particularly a Christian. A need can turn into an overwhelming desire which rules over us, which then turns into idolatry let alone unsettles our spirit. Women are very intuitive too, and often pick up on that is what's happening. Instead of being drawn to a male struggling with that in their life, apparently most women seem to be repelled, for fear they themselves will be overwhelmed by what they may perceive as possibly the lustful behaviour of a male.

I suspect where you are at the moment it would be hard for you to have much or regular opportunity to meet socially with Christian family, but is there a church you can fellowship at that is lead by elders you could put trust in, that could help you deal with your situation?
 

Robertt

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Yes, that's difficult for anyone, particularly a Christian. A need can turn into an overwhelming desire which rules over us, which then turns into idolatry let alone unsettles our spirit. Women are very intuitive too, and often pick up on that is what's happening. Instead of being drawn to a male struggling with that in their life, apparently most women seem to be repelled, for fear they themselves will be overwhelmed by what they may perceive as possibly the lustful behaviour of a male.

I suspect where you are at the moment it would be hard for you to have much or regular opportunity to meet socially with Christian family, but is there a church you can fellowship at that is lead by elders you could put trust in, that could help you deal with your situation?
actually i have no problem attracting girls as all i do is try to please them. The issue i have is attracting Christian girls who seemingly have different desires to non christians.

So i have given up on finding a christian girl. i will stick to enjoyment and pleasing others.
 

Gojira

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Yes, that's difficult for anyone, particularly a Christian. A need can turn into an overwhelming desire which rules over us, which then turns into idolatry let alone unsettles our spirit. Women are very intuitive too, and often pick up on that is what's happening. Instead of being drawn to a male struggling with that in their life, apparently most women seem to be repelled, for fear they themselves will be overwhelmed by what they may perceive as possibly the lustful behaviour of a male.

I suspect where you are at the moment it would be hard for you to have much or regular opportunity to meet socially with Christian family, but is there a church you can fellowship at that is lead by elders you could put trust in, that could help you deal with your situation?
Man... hammer on the nail!
 

Gojira

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actually i have no problem attracting girls as all i do is try to please them. The issue i have is attracting Christian girls who seemingly have different desires to non christians.

So i have given up on finding a christian girl. i will stick to enjoyment and pleasing others.
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Is this the guy who got all tiffy and hyper-spiritual with me and blocked me because I made Biblical references in a response to him?

W... wow.
 

tourist

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actually i have no problem attracting girls as all i do is try to please them. The issue i have is attracting Christian girls who seemingly have different desires to non christians.

So i have given up on finding a christian girl. i will stick to enjoyment and pleasing others.
Just do the best that you can for what God has provided you at the moment.
 

tourist

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because i love them... and that which you love the most rules you...
we do things to please them . get their attention. impress them. make them smile

So yes , i have as hole in my heart and it can only be filled by the opposite gender.
My counsel is to focus on the one that most interests you. I had a hole in my heart for years after my divorce in 1984. 18 years in fact. Making them smile is a good tactic though.
 

Gojira

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My counsel is to focus on the one that most interests you. I had a hole in my heart for years after my divorce in 1984. 18 years in fact. Making them smile is a good tactic though.
Bro, this sounds like idolatry to me and, unless I'm misreading him -- which is entirely possible -- it sounds like he's saying that's he's screwing around with them. Hence my quizzical responses.
 

tourist

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Bro, this sounds like idolatry to me and, unless I'm misreading him -- which is entirely possible -- it sounds like he's saying that's he's screwing around with them. Hence my quizzical responses.
I hope that this is not the case. It would be sad if it was.
 

Gojira

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I hope that this is not the case. It would be sad if it was.
Yeah, maybe I'm reading into his words, but they were rather vague, and in that context of not dating Christians and non-Christian women being the source of his happiness, I don't know how else to read that.
 

Gojira

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Here's my midnight confession...

Ready?

Don't judge me now...

I...

was...

...a test tube baby.

No, I lied! Lied do you hear?!? No... here's the bizarre truth of my origins... my deep, dark secret...

I hatched. Yes, hatched. But, how else is a lizard born?

My mother and father Godzilla raised me to be a fierce alpha predator, but with a strange liking for humans, even when they're annoying and firing their little missiles at me. They're almost cute in their defiance, kind of like a Chihuahua.

But, there you have it. Take me or leave me. Love me or hate me. But, remember that we all have skeletons. The only difference is, some are in my belly (well, I don't live on asparagus you know).