Anxious thoughts

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CharliRenee

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I am not quite getting what you mean in paragraph one or the part where you said you are calm off what Jesus did and calm and satisfied off my own actions, responses and treamtments of things. Could you explain what you mean and maybe give examples?
Sorry to be a pain.
I look forward to his reply, because I think I'm getting it but not sure. I could not help but think of this verse...

But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:2 ESV
https://bible.com/bible/59/psa.131.2.ESV
 

Ruby123

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I look forward to his reply, because I think I'm getting it but not sure. I could not help but think of this verse...

But I have calmed and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with its mother; like a weaned child is my soul within me.
Psalm 131:2 ESV
https://bible.com/bible/59/psa.131.2.ESV
I want to know the reply too lol.
I know that I have some circumstances in my life that I want to change and I have been praying for a long time now and nothing has happened. But the other week I thought I heard God say to me to deal with the patterns of my thinking. To stop going down the same path of thoughts (which were negative) and then my circumstances will change. It is like if you agree with this pattern or thoughts than you will get the same negative outcome that they are saying to you but if you say no to them and replace them with what God says the circumstances will line up with HIS truth. We have to realise it is not a formula to "get" but to simply live according to what God says. I dont know I am just learning this myself and I am not good at putting my thoughts into words. I ramble and go around in circles. It annoys me.
 

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@CharliRenee I watched this today and thought it was good and encouraging

Thank you for sharing, this actually help inspire me to get to church today.

What an inspiring young man with a beautiful testimony. I loved how all the ppl pitched, participating in showing God's glory
 

CharliRenee

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Listening to right now, saved to my playlist. Yes, let go, follow..sometimes when past haunts me, when future uncertain, some days tough some work is hard, yes yes, sniff sniff...ty Lord!!!
 

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#47
His mercies are new each morning see Lamentations 3:23

I remind myself, that, maybe I made mistakes YESTERDAY and it bothered me but I had a sleep and woke up to a fresh new day. And the chance to learn from it and do better.


I thought of the psalm you shared was referring to a child now independent of its mother and confident to go and do their own thing.
Im suppsing this anxiety or anxious thoughts are whats going to happen to me without so and so. But a weaned child is fine and not going to cry every time for its mother milk anymore.
 

CharliRenee

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His mercies are new each morning see Lamentations 3:23

I remind myself, that, maybe I made mistakes YESTERDAY and it bothered me but I had a sleep and woke up to a fresh new day. And the chance to learn from it and do better.


I thought of the psalm you shared was referring to a child now independent of its mother and confident to go and do their own thing.
Im suppsing this anxiety or anxious thoughts are whats going to happen to me without so and so. But a weaned child is fine and not going to cry every time for its mother milk anymore.
Oh ty for your response, and for reminding me of His mercies. You are so levelheaded it seems lanolin. I believe you would work through anxiety quickly, of course with His help.
 

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Thank you for sharing, this actually help inspire me to get to church today.

What an inspiring young man with a beautiful testimony. I loved how all the ppl pitched, participating in showing God's glory
It's amazing that when it is Gods will everything just falls into place like it did for this guy.
 

ebdesroches

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Listening to right now, saved to my playlist. Yes, let go, follow..sometimes when past haunts me, when future uncertain, some days tough some work is hard, yes yes, sniff sniff...ty Lord!!!
We are small dots in time. We don't know when we will be gone. We want to be with our God forever. That fact is important, and we will be because we love Him and because of that we obey Him. Nothing is that important. i think we let things that happen to us obscure our vision of the connection with Him without light of eternal perspective. I want to love Him completely everyday, every minute, thats something to work toward, nothing should disturb our peace, He has our attention!

He will probably test me on everything I am saying here (He always has been so good to me, my life has been easy with few disappointments). I want to be ready and I want to pass the test!

My wish is to be like St. John of the Cross, completely focused on our spouse, our God. Completely facscinated and in completely in love with Him, longing for Him always.

I know you know everything I wrote, thats why I said "we". And knowing you a little it should be "I should be...."
 

CharliRenee

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We are small dots in time. We don't know when we will be gone. We want to be with our God forever. That fact is important, and we will be because we love Him and because of that we obey Him. Nothing is that important. i think we let things that happen to us obscure our vision of the connection with Him without light of eternal perspective. I want to love Him completely everyday, every minute, thats something to work toward, nothing should disturb our peace, He has our attention!

He will probably test me on everything I am saying here (He always has been so good to me, my life has been easy with few disappointments). I want to be ready and I want to pass the test!

My wish is to be like St. John of the Cross, completely focused on our spouse, our God. Completely facscinated and in completely in love with Him, longing for Him always.

I know you know everything I wrote, thats why I said "we". And knowing you a little it should be "I should be...."
I love what you said, for me I so want to be like Jesus on the cross. Hopeful and devoted. He is my lead, and the One I want to follow. But yes, completely focused on our spouse, our God. Completely facscinated and in completely in love with Him, longing for Him always...yes yes yes!!!
 

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I love what you said, for me I so want to be like Jesus on the cross. Hopeful and devoted. He is my lead, and the One I want to follow. But yes, completely focused on our spouse, our God. Completely facscinated and in completely in love with Him, longing for Him always...yes yes yes!!!
I love what you said, for me I so want to be like Jesus on the cross. Hopeful and devoted. He is my lead, and the One I want to follow. But yes, completely focused on our spouse, our God. Completely facscinated and in completely in love with Him, longing for Him always...yes yes yes!!!
More hugs for you my sister! you are precious
 

ebdesroches

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More hugs for you my sister! you are precious
Emil Gilbran from Magentas post, another sweetheart:

Emil gilbran

When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.

And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself
He threshes you to make your naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets
of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart.

But if in your heart you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.

Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, “I am in the heart of God.”
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
 

CharliRenee

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Emil Gilbran from Magentas post, another sweetheart:

Emil gilbran

When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.

And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself
He threshes you to make your naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets
of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart.

But if in your heart you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.

Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, “I am in the heart of God.”
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
This is so very beautiful, brother, ty, hugs, and yes Magenta is a sweetheart, for sure 💖
 

ebdesroches

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This is so very beautiful, brother, ty, hugs, and yes Magenta is a sweetheart, for sure 💖
Since you are staff can you help me out here? I subscribed as a life member but cant start a conversation on site not download the android app. What to do?
 

CharliRenee

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Since you are staff can you help me out here? I subscribed as a life member but cant start a conversation on site not download the android app. What to do?
I was made staff here so that I can help with a wee chore. I don't have the know how or ability to help you with the android app. Sorry, I wish that I did know as many are wondering themselves. Besides helping a little here, I am just another member, like everyone else. I have been told it isn't accessible right now, that the app is not currently on google play store. The main administrator of this site may know, but right now...I think he just needs our prayers.
 

ebdesroches

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I was made staff here so that I can help with a wee chore. I don't have the know how or ability to help you with the android app. Sorry, I wish that I did know as many are wondering themselves. Besides helping a little here, I am just another member, like everyone else. I have been told it isn't accessible right now, that the app is not currently on google play store. The main administrator of this site may know, but right now...I think he just needs our prayers.
can i post using the web post feature, main page, person icon, conversation if i have a lifetime membership?
 

CharliRenee

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Since you are staff can you help me out here? I subscribed as a life member but cant start a conversation on site not download the android app. What to do?
Wait you can't start conversations? I don't know about that, maybe it depends on who u are writing. Some ppl don't allow that in their settings. Hmmm, that is bazaar.