Why do christian women prefer a atheist/muslim husband?

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Forever_Saved

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I cant be the only one who notice this. Extremly many christian women are married with a non-christian man.

God want christians to be married to christians.

99 % of times, the children innherent their dads religious views.

Why cant christian women wait until the right christian man show up and marry him? Why are christian women so desperate to getting married so
fast?

Since non-christian women are not intrestest in having christian husband, and neither is christian women, then it makes many christian males forced to live single their whole life.
I think you're generalizing too much, this may be happening in your country or city but not mine. In my church we're way more women than men. In the singles community groups we're way more women than men, in the youth group as well. We normally get the news of some brothers misbehaving lustfully.
So yeah, in my case I think you're wrong, we women in my city and church are patiently waiting on the Lord while the men who call themselve christians, tend to misbehave.
 

Subhumanoidal

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I cant be the only one who notice this. Extremly many christian women are married with a non-christian man.

God want christians to be married to christians.

99 % of times, the children innherent their dads religious views.

Why cant christian women wait until the right christian man show up and marry him? Why are christian women so desperate to getting married so
fast?

Since non-christian women are not intrestest in having christian husband, and neither is christian women, then it makes many christian males forced to live single their whole life.
Can't say I've seen this to be true.

Perhaps in your limited circle the Christian men have less to offer? Thereby making the issue less of the woman's problem and more of the Christian males?

One thing I Have seen, consistently, on this site, is Both men and women complaining there is a lack of dating/marriage options for Christians.

But I do find irony that you're complaining about Christian women marrying non-Christians, yet also complain, yourself, that non-Christian women don't want to marry or date Christian men, "forcing" Christian men to stay single.
So it would seem you have also considered/sought out non-Christian women as well, while criticizing Christian women for doing the same.
 

DuchessAimee

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apparently if your mother is jewish, you are Jewish, so it must work other way round for Jews.
That’s how I’m Jewish. My mom’s family came over from Lithuania. If I went to shul I’d be able to have dual citizenship in Israel, and honestly, Israel feels like home.
 
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Polar

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I cant be the only one who notice this. Extremly many christian women are married with a non-christian man.

God want christians to be married to christians.

99 % of times, the children innherent their dads religious views.

Why cant christian women wait until the right christian man show up and marry him? Why are christian women so desperate to getting married so
fast?

Since non-christian women are not intrestest in having christian husband, and neither is christian women, then it makes many christian males forced to live single their whole life.

you live in Sweden, right? so why include the entire planet's population of Christian women?

you have no proof of anything you are saying...I see you are not married...were you ever married?

it sounds like you may believe you are that Christian man women should wait for

and that last sentence...this is just nonsense
 
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Polar

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I must be living in another dimension. or maybe I just don't put much credit in sweeping generalizations
 

TabinRivCA

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Lynx

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What?!

Sorry, I don't follow.
 

TabinRivCA

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Ikr, for some reason when I saw CT's pic I immediately thought of you and KB and thought it was funny. Don't mind me I guess I have a different sense of humor. I just thought it was cute and funny, and nothing else.
 

Dino246

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Being passed over stinks.

Read Psalm 73. :)
 

melita916

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I’m a Christian woman who married a Christian man. Praise the Lord!
 

Lanolin

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we get some strange threads on the singles forum
 
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Gojira

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I apologize. I shouldn’t generalize in such a flippant way. I’m just speaking out of my experience and observation. Some men (and women) aren’t mean and selfish people.

Truly, I’m sorry. Perhaps I need to work out my issues, eh? 😂
Believe me, I've experienced rejection and disinterest from women for all sorts of reasons. Height, of all things (I'm 5'6"), is one of them. I've been told this twice, to my face, by women professing Christ. They liked to wear heels, and didn't want to feel stupid standing next to me.
 

DuchessAimee

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Believe me, I've experienced rejection and disinterest from women for all sorts of reasons. Height, of all things (I'm 5'6"), is one of them. I've been told this twice, to my face, by women professing Christ. They liked to wear heels, and didn't want to feel stupid standing next to me.
I’m sorry. That’s a painful thing to go through. My biggest problem is that I’m not thin. I’ve lost a hundred pounds but I’ll never be thin thin, ya know? Seeing bones through skin freaks me out even though I should lose however much more weight. Guys will get into a relationship with me and I usually hear “I can’t do this anymore. I want a thin girl.” I’ve just stopped getting into relationships.
 
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Gojira

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I’m sorry. That’s a painful thing to go through. My biggest problem is that I’m not thin. I’ve lost a hundred pounds but I’ll never be thin thin, ya know? Seeing bones through skin freaks me out even though I should lose however much more weight. Guys will get into a relationship with me and I usually hear “I can’t do this anymore. I want a thin girl.” I’ve just stopped getting into relationships.
oh, well crap
 

HealthAndHappiness

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Believe me, I've experienced rejection and disinterest from women for all sorts of reasons. Height, of all things (I'm 5'6"), is one of them. I've been told this twice, to my face, by women professing Christ. They liked to wear heels, and didn't want to feel stupid standing next to me.
I've heard that Tattoo was a ladies man.
 
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I cant be the only one who notice this. Extremly many christian women are married with a non-christian man.

God want christians to be married to christians.

99 % of times, the children innherent their dads religious views.

Why cant christian women wait until the right christian man show up and marry him? Why are christian women so desperate to getting married so
fast?

Since non-christian women are not intrestest in having christian husband, and neither is christian women, then it makes many christian males forced to live single their whole life.
You think atheists and Muslims are nabbing up all of the Christian women? That doesn’t even make sense. Muslims generally don’t want to marry outside of their religion and atheists generally don’t respect or appreciate any religion or mention of God.

I’m not saying it doesn’t happen sometimes, but it’s not really a common thing like you’re saying.