Sexual Temptation (TMI warning)
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“Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent.” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape
And also no, her age alone does not make it rape. They are both minors. This is straight up misinformation. Careful what you say. https://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/is-it-illegal-for-two-minors-to-have-sexual-conduc-793997.html
https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/criminal-defense/is-sex-between-minors-a-crime/
Please educate your regarding the laws concerning sexual intercourse with a/between minor/s. It can be illegal for two minors to have sex. In some states, having sexual intercourse with someone who is under the age of consent is treated as statutory rape. In other states there is an exemption to statutory rape when two people who are close in age have consensual sex. Romeo and Juliet laws are clauses built into statutory rape laws in some states. These laws address situations in which two individuals who are close in age, and one of whom is not yet of legal age, engage in consensual sexual relations. The age difference allowed by Romeo and Juliet laws varies by state, though it is generally not more than five years. Each state’s law specifies which criminal charges, if any, may apply to each situation. source
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I think you need to calm down about the "This is my only chance" thing. Someone is going to marry you, be in peace with yourself about that, marriage is a lot more than just atractiveness and trivial stuff, thats just the beginning. Marriage is a bound where man and woman build a life with meaning together, is something that if you take real serious, you will get a lot of benefits from it in you life.
The other thing is that I know from experience that sexual desires are very strong and difficult to avoid, but believe me, 90% of the girls I've met (as friend or as a couple) would change their "first time" if they could go back in time.
Sex is something so powerful that it can really destroy your life, believe me, you are not mature enough to dimention it and even we live in a culture where sex is such a natural and normalised topic that you may think it's normal for you to have intimate relationships.
Believe me, that would be one of the biggest mistakes of your life, me as a man, if I could go back in time, I would've wait until marriage because when you have your first time, sex will always have a space in your life, and that isn't something you want in your early life.
Just trust us and don't believe that we are "stupid conservatives" or something like that, many of us ruined a part of our life because of sexual sin, It isn't something to just earn heaven in a Christian context, is something to be at peace while you live in this world.
God created the sexual mechanism so strong for a reason, for a succesful reproduction and an intimate and unique conection with your husband.
I used to be an atheist for 10 years or so, and I know I'm not late to understand this, sex can really wreck your life, you better be a little conservative about it at least.
The other thing is that I know from experience that sexual desires are very strong and difficult to avoid, but believe me, 90% of the girls I've met (as friend or as a couple) would change their "first time" if they could go back in time.
Sex is something so powerful that it can really destroy your life, believe me, you are not mature enough to dimention it and even we live in a culture where sex is such a natural and normalised topic that you may think it's normal for you to have intimate relationships.
Believe me, that would be one of the biggest mistakes of your life, me as a man, if I could go back in time, I would've wait until marriage because when you have your first time, sex will always have a space in your life, and that isn't something you want in your early life.
Just trust us and don't believe that we are "stupid conservatives" or something like that, many of us ruined a part of our life because of sexual sin, It isn't something to just earn heaven in a Christian context, is something to be at peace while you live in this world.
God created the sexual mechanism so strong for a reason, for a succesful reproduction and an intimate and unique conection with your husband.
I used to be an atheist for 10 years or so, and I know I'm not late to understand this, sex can really wreck your life, you better be a little conservative about it at least.
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You’re not my friend. You’re loved beyond comprehension! 
* having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
* having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.-
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You’re not my friend. You’re loved beyond comprehension! * having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
* having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
You’re not my friend. You’re loved beyond comprehension! * having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
* having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
You’re not my friend. You’re loved beyond comprehension! * having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
* having self-conflict-ion is going to ruin you my friend, I’ve been down that road. Everyone has different personalities and taste, one person might think you’re ugly, while someone might think you’re the most Gorgeous person they’ve ever seen. I can understand why you wanna be with him. I’d forgive him even though Ik what he did was wrong; Christ would. We all make dumb mistakes we’ll regret later on in life, especially since you guys are 13 (I made a lot of dumb mistakes around that age lol). With age comes Maturity. Maybe try talking about with him why he wants to do that, and that it makes you uncomfortable. But if this keeps going on, you might wanna consider your relationship with him. If he genuinely loved you, he’d respect your boundaries. Even though I really hope you read this message, you’re loved, remember that! If you want someone to talk to, I’m always down to listen. God loved you, remember that my friend! It’s hard to see (I fail to see it some days), but his steadfast love is pure.
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